What are the scents that turn men on the most? You may think wings and beer...but that's not the case. Believe it or not, cinnamon buns, pumpkin pie and lavender are all answers! Before you run to some lavender fields or down to your local bakery, I have a few, ahem, easier recommendations, as well as other picks for my... CONTINUE READING 10

Valentine’s Day and I have always had a rocky relationship. In elementary school it was obvious that you would give your entire class mini V-Day cards, but I got anxiety about the process—was “Love, Cait” too strong? If I signed “Love, Cait” on only my crush’s card, would he get that I liked him? Should I even tell him that... CONTINUE READING 9

Sultry, sexy, sensual and feminine, red is the way to go this Valentine’s Day. From a little hint to full-blown red lips, check out these options for a red-hot Valentine’s celebration. Formulated with Vitamin C and E, longwearing and wonderfully sheer pigmented, Korres Cherry Full Color Gloss ($17 at Sephora) is a bright, cherry red, non-sticky gloss that... CONTINUE READING 8

If home is where the heart is, why should ticker-themed home décor only come out around Valentine’s Day? I’ve selected a few pieces that are perfect for use around February 14 and after. -Cait Rohan As mentioned, a cool doormat is an obvious winter staple, but show your loved ones how much you truly enjoy their company with Urban Outfitters’ 2x3 Please... CONTINUE READING 9

Why let boys have all the fun when it comes to technology? With sparkle and sass, these gadgets have the ultimate girlie edge and are the perfect way to make any technology-obsessed guy (cough, every man) jealous. Plus, we’re betting these are the types of gifts your guy will actually want to get you for Valentine’s Day. -Cait Rohan Best Hostessing Gadget:... CONTINUE READING 16

When I was little, I thought that when my cousin (who is 13 years my senior) had a new boyfriend, she simply picked one up from some sort of Boys ‘R’ Us. Boy, was I (unfortunately!!) wrong. Yes, one can only dream that there is a toy shop in which to pick out the perfect man (list of traits and past... CONTINUE READING 13

Whether you’re expecting a ring this holiday season, one in February for Valentine’s Day…or you just wanna dream, we’ve got five perfect picks to share. Important to note: Price is no object in our dreams. Here goes! Diamonds definitely dazzle with this Neil Lane Bridal™ 14K Gold 1 3/8 Ct. t.w. Diamond Bridal Set ($3,999.99) on Kay Jewelers. Wear a sexy... CONTINUE READING 33

Think of sex shop and some seedy underground speakeasy-style spot probably comes to mind. Not so with Coco de Mer’s “Erotic Luxury” shop with locations in L.A., London and New York, and for those of us not in an international city, online at cocodemerusa.com. With the holidays right around the corner and faced with the ever-annoying conundrum of buying a great... CONTINUE READING 18

The Shecky’s Staffer of the Men, WTF column is at it again, and after a summer full of weddings, engagements and other holy matrimony hoopla (plus a fall where none of that tying the knot excitement is slowing down), she’s got a thing or 10 to say about marriage proposals. See her dos and don’ts list and share the story... CONTINUE READING 49

are complicated…and actually going about giving a guy the boot is even harder. All of us have called it quits...only to get cold feet and just jump back into the game with our should've-been ex. Here’s one Shecky’s Staffer's story about how she just couldn’t follow through. “My ex broke his ankle playing basketball in regular sneakers. Being the... CONTINUE READING 2