QUESTION: Natalie1985: Why do guys date crazy women? Not to be a traitor to my sex or anything, but I just don’t get it. I was always told that being hyper clingy, reading my boyfriend’s emails and berating him for not lavishing me with constant attention was a bad thing, yet several of my guy friends are in long-term relationships with women... CONTINUE READING 17

You may be thinking about doing some spring cleaning, but don’t forget about refreshing one of the most forgotten rooms of your home—your bedroom. If you’re still wearing those flannel pants with that torn sweatshirt from your college days, we’re here to help! Check out some of these great picks to amp up your bedtime fun... Affordable, dainty, and oh-so-chic, everything from... CONTINUE READING 18

QUESTION: Jordan Smith: I really want my boyfriend to lose a couple and get back in the gym with me. How can I get him to do this without being a nag? ANSWERS: Mr. In a Relationship SEE BIO NOW> This is a tough one because although there are a myriad of ways that fitness can improve one's life—more energy, better sex, confidence, etc.—it can... CONTINUE READING 11

Let’s cut to the chase—intimacy is one of the main issues in all relationships, but in our over-sexed society, it can be difficult to gauge what exactly pleases your partner…or yourself. That’s why Loren Kapelow and her late husband, Stephen Kapelow, started Videos for Lovers—sort of like sex-education via easily relatable videos—to help foster intimacy between couples. Loren Kapelow Co-Founder Videos for Lovers New... CONTINUE READING 11

QUESTION: Demi asks: “I am in my late 30s and on a dating website. Ninety percent of the men pursuing me are 10-15 years younger than me. Why can’t I attract men my age?” ANSWERS: Mr. Noncommittal SEE BIO NOW> That’s a bit odd. Most men I know are looking for girls younger than them. I’m in my late thirties and I have a... CONTINUE READING 29

Good news for all you treadmill-phobes: simply playing board games can help you torch calories. Yep, whether you're a gym-hater, don't have enough time for a 30-minute sweat session or are bored the same ol',  celeb fitness guru David Buer has expert advice on how to get a great calorie burn out of everyday activities like sex, household cleaning and shopping. David... CONTINUE READING 16

Still can’t figure out a V-Day present (after all our suggestions?!) or stubbornly want to stick with chocolate? Don’t buy someone a plain ol’ heart-shaped box—our off-the-wall chocolate gifts are delightful twists on the traditional. Plus, most of them come complete with great last-minute shipping deals! -Cait Rohan Got a guy who would puke at the prospect of typical V-Day candy? Vosges... CONTINUE READING 15

Lingerie and Valentine’s Day can get kinda Romeo and Juliet—the red/pink, overzealous bows and painful thongs often equal one lethal combination. Lucky for you, I've scouted out six V-Day underthings that won't poison your love life. -Cait Rohan How come searching for Valentine’s Day bras usually brings up cheesy pink-and-red pieces with more stuffing than a V-Day teddy bear? Bare Necessities’ Love Game Push-Up... CONTINUE READING 8

Valentine’s Day is a holiday laden with candy, chocolate and romantic dinners, so it’s especially hard to ignore aphrodisiac foods this time of year. Whether you're cooking for your hubby or a date you'd like to seal the deal with, have your sexiest night ever when you serve one or all of these aphrodisiac dishes. -Cait Rohan The Barefoot Contessa’s Roasted Tomato... CONTINUE READING 8

QUESTION: Laura asks: What do you like most about being in a relationship other than sex—or do you only have relationships for the sex? What do you look for in a serious girlfriend/wife? ANSWERS: Mr. Loves Boys Too SEE BIO NOW> Really? A relationship for the sex? I’ve always had a lot more sex when I'm not in a relationship—and with multiple partners…sometimes at... CONTINUE READING 24