When you hear someone talking about “Finding the One,” odds are that you think about love. Finding a person with whom to build a happy and harmonious life together, complete with romance, marriage (or not), children and holding hands, while you stroll into the sunset of life. Most of us have been, at one point in our lives, on a... CONTINUE READING 8

Happy 10th birthday to Shecky’s (have you checked out our amazing deals and more?)! In honor of the awesome party attitude that goes along with a b-day and our love for Fridays, we’re bringing you a TOP 10 AT 10AM every Friday. I’ve always found handwritten postcards/cards/invites/letters terribly romantic. Sure, they’re not as eco-friendly as their digital counterparts, but what snail... CONTINUE READING 18

Question: "So, it randomly came up with my guy about how many people we’d both slept with, and I was completely honest. I haven’t slept with a lot of people (around 10), but his number is half of mine. I feel like it REALLY bothers him. I’ve tried talking to him, telling him that was all in the past, etc., but he just... CONTINUE READING 20

Let’s face it, ladies—we are extremely charming, beautiful and intelligent, so it should come as no surprise that a lot of men are too intimidated to approach the women they’re interested in. Enter Marni Kinrys, founder of The Wing Girl Method. Marni doesn’t feed guys pick-up lines, she gives them advice about how we think and what we really want.... CONTINUE READING 12

It’s basic instinct—the guy is supposed to be taller than the girl, right? But what’s a statuesque sistah (and a short stud) to do? Find out why one of Shecky’s Staffers always wears high heels, no matter what height her boyfriend or date may be. “I’m your average-sized woman: 5 feet 6 inches, maybe one inch taller if you want to... CONTINUE READING 38

Today, we're celebrating our Always-Logged-On Girlfriends (have you voted in our National Girlfriend Awards yet?), so imagine our surprise when we heard that one of our very own Shecky's Staffers was into...video games. And this Staffer is a girl (we already knew about the obsession guys have with gaming, duh!). Read her story, and tell us if you're a gamer... CONTINUE READING 31

A while back, we asked our Shecksters to use Beyoncé's hit song "Best Thing I Never Had" as an inspiration to tell us the best thing that they never had. Thousands of you entered, and the stories (and dedication to Ms. B!) were all inspiring. It was tough to pick our final four, but here they are! GRAND-PRIZE WINNER: If I ... CONTINUE READING 14

Question: (Sent via our form): What’s up with the porn stash? My guy says he likes me as real as I am, but then he has porn videos of all these super-skinny, fake-boobed women. Why? ANSWERS: Mr. Young and in Love SEE BIO NOW> Why does your guy look at porn? Because he's a guy! We all do it, and any woman who says their man... CONTINUE READING 22

Going through a divorce or called it quits on your marriage a while back? You may think anyone who says there's a light at the end of the tunnel is a little crazy, but when Post-Divorce Coach Lee Block tells you to have hope, we'd believe her. Why? Not only has Lee been there and survived, she's launched a thriving... CONTINUE READING 9

Ladies, I’ve already let you in on why I think vacationing is a relationship maker or breaker. But, as I’ve just so recently realized, deciding where to stay is way different with a guy than it is when traveling with friends. This harsh reality was brought up when my boyfriend suggested that we stay in a hostel room with other people.... CONTINUE READING 56