We might not be Irish, but we love St. Patrick’s Day! Green bagels and beers aside, we love it because it's a fabulous reminder for us to count all of our lucky charms. And considering the chaotic state of the world right now, do we ever feel lucky! We are lucky because we have the privilege of helping wonderful women triumph... CONTINUE READING 7

Have you recently had your heart shattered into a million pieces? Has the amorous spirit of this month really taken a toll on your single self? Or, perhaps you have a pal who's been dumped and needs a pick-me-up? Nothing says happiness like having fun with the things that once made you sad. Instead of sulking in your sorrows, it's... CONTINUE READING 27

Why, why do break-ups always happen right around the major winter holidays or Valentine’s Day? As a comfort to those of you who were dumped recently, and those who have been broken up with ever (um, hey, everyone?!), we’d like to present some of the craziest stuff we’ve ever done after a break-up. We’re sure you’ll find yourself a bit more,... CONTINUE READING 19

We love the New Year…a clean slate and an opportunity to refresh and renew lies ahead. But, we also know that the turning of the clock doesn’t create that greatness…YOU have to get in your own dating game, in a BIG way, if you want to win at it. So, say goodbye to love lost or never found in 2011... CONTINUE READING 13

Nowadays, we often put up with people or activities that are just not good for us. We say yes to the awful speed-dating sessions, overly processed food and that extra shot at the bar. Here are tips for how to put your well-being first and just say no, for good this year! -Jasmine Frazier Say no to a bad relationship. There's almost... CONTINUE READING 21

To call me a relationship person would be an understatement. Until recently, I’d never gone more than a month or two without a boyfriend since I was 15. I started dating my high school sweetheart as a mere freshman, and when that ended four years later, I almost immediately got involved with someone at college. So it should come as no surprise... CONTINUE READING 11

Happy Hump Day! We know the middle of the week can be a drag, so we’re introducing our bi-weekly series of inspiring posters from best-selling author Karen Salmansohn. Karen brings fun nuggets of self-help advice on her blog daily (or more than daily!) on notsalmon.com. EDITOR'S TAKE: We devote a tremendous amount of time and energy to "finding our missing... CONTINUE READING 10

It’s okay to love your ex. In fact, it’s probably impossible to stop loving the ones we’ve loved and cared for. However, you do need to stop obsessing about them and finally accept that they are long gone, not coming back, and it’s time to forgive and let go. To stop obsessing requires discipline. It’s like breaking a bad habit. Decide... CONTINUE READING 18

A lot of people come to me with a similar situation: they just figured out that they don’t want to be in a relationship with someone (it could be a someone they’re dating, a friend or even their spouse). Then they ask me how long should they wait to leave. I always answer their question with a question: “How... CONTINUE READING 9

True love can be all-consuming—and sometimes it’s a good thing to lose yourself in another person, so long as it’s all happy. But what about ‘true love’ gone bad? In honor of Domestic Violence Awareness Month, one Staffer tells us how a tough relationship made her stronger. “Like every other little girl, I ate up every Disney movie and love story,... CONTINUE READING 36