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“What’s Up with His Porn?”

Question: (Sent via our form): What’s up with the porn stash? My guy says he likes me as real as I am, but then he has porn videos of all these super-skinny, fake-boobed women. Why? ANSWERS: Mr. Young and in Love SEE BIO NOW> Why does your guy look at porn? Because he's a guy! We all do it, and any woman who says their man... CONTINUE READING 22

He's Got a Different Vacation Agenda Than I Do

Ladies, I’ve already let you in on why I think vacationing is a relationship maker or breaker. But, as I’ve just so recently realized, deciding where to stay is way different with a guy than it is when traveling with friends. This harsh reality was brought up when my boyfriend suggested that we stay in a hostel room with other people.... CONTINUE READING 56

“Why Does He Worry About My Guy Friends?”

Question: (Sent via our form): Why do guys worry so much when their girlfriends/wives have male friends? ANSWERS: Mr. Loves Boys Too SEE BIO NOW> They worry for the same reasons you worry when they have female friends. Of course, my partner and I have all the female friends we want…there is no danger there. We also each have a bunch of male friends…the straight... CONTINUE READING 23

Date-Night Emergency Kit

I love getting ready for dates—it's my excuse to break out my sky-high heels and that dress I never wear. But when it gets down to the wire and I'm trying to pack my purse, I have trouble jamming my "everyday essentials" into my tiny (but oh-so-cute!) clutch. After a few first dates that included me, a guy and my... CONTINUE READING 43

Make Sex Sizzle This Summer

According to iVillage, temperatures shouldn't be the only thing getting hotter this summer. Up the ante on your sex game and your steamy nights are sure to rise with the mercury! Fear not if fun in the bedroom has you imagining naughty nurse outfits and the like, because their sizzling suggestions are all modern and summer-specific, including ideas like turning off... CONTINUE READING 70

How Do I Tell Him I Have an STD?

QUESTION: Sent via our form: I have an STD…and it’s not going anywhere. I’m dating a new guy and I really like him. We’ve only made out so far, but it’s been a few weeks and I’d like to get intimate with him. How do I tell him without scaring him off? ANSWERS: Mr. Young and in Love SEE BIO NOW> Well, this is certainly an awkward... CONTINUE READING 20

Dating Your Ex? You’ve Got Retrosexualitis

“Success does not consist in never making mistakes, but in never making the same one a second time.” – George Bernard Shaw If you woke up this morning and the guy by your side was your ex, you just might have a case of “retrosexualitis,” meaning that when the going gets tough in the dating scene, you get weak for your ex.... CONTINUE READING 22

I Cheated. Should I Tell My Boyfriend? How?

QUESTION: Sent via our form: “I cheated on my boyfriend, but I still really love him. It was a one-night stand thing and I really didn’t mean it. I will never do it again and I feel really guilty. I want to be with my boyfriend forever, but I also want to be honest with him. Should I tell him or keep it... CONTINUE READING 65

What Poor Sex Etiquette Annoys You Most?

Dear gentlemen, being polite in the sack is just as important as having good manners on a first date. I absolutely love The Frisky’s 10 Examples of Poor Sex Etiquette and their follow up 8 Reader Suggested Sexytime Faux Pas, because they list some of the dumb, impolite things that men happen to do during the deed. Below are my faves... CONTINUE READING 33

Does Size Matter?

I was riding the subway recently, and a creepy guy was staring at my cleavage. Then, I felt him do elevator eyes over my legs, my butt and back up to the boobs. Ew. How is it fair that guys can instantly judge our bodies with all of our, er, womanly parts, but we can see nothing of their important... CONTINUE READING 30