Do you remember Tila Tequila’s VH1 reality show, A Shot at Love? It was probably the first-ever of its kind, with the pin-up girl having 16 men and 16 women compete for her attention. Though controversial, I can’t say that it was a “step in the right direction” for the bi community. For years, “women-on-women” action... CONTINUE READING 12

“The decision to kiss for the first time is the most crucial in any love story. It changes the relationship of two people much more strongly than even the final surrender; because this kiss already has within it that surrender.”-Emil Ludwig The night of my birthday, I found myself in a first-date predicament. I had agreed to go... CONTINUE READING 19

This never-been-told, slightly embarrassing story starts with a girl (me) who was in a very on-and-off relationship with someone completely wrong for her. As one particular Valentine's Day neared, my Mr. Wrong started doubting things...again. He wasn't sure he was ready for a relationship, or that this was working out, or some other BS excuse that guys give girls. While this... CONTINUE READING 9

You’re scrolling down your Facebook newsfeed when a provocative photo catches your eye. You click—only to find it’s a photo of you. Remember that wild night freshman year, when you got hot and heavy at the club and started making out with Whatshisname? Well, you do now! And so do your 1,500 Facebook friends! Yep, it seems that your forgotten... CONTINUE READING 10

With the clean slate that January 1st offers every year, loads of kissing is definitely a prerequisite for New Year’s Eve. Whether you’re smooching with your sweetie or locking lips with a new lover, you’re going to need a long-lasting lipstick that can hold up under heavy use. Here's a list of lippies that are up for the job! -Tai Nycole Harriss Regardless... CONTINUE READING 16

QUESTION: "I'm going home for the holidays and I HAVE to see my ex-boyfriend (we have mutual friends). We have unfinished business and broke up less than a year ago, so I'm afraid of saying or doing something stupid (...like hooking up with him!). I know, I know. The easy answer here is 'Don't drink,' but let's be real. I'm going to... CONTINUE READING 10

There’s something about being home for the holidays that is kind of like taking mind-altering drugs. You stuff yourself without about 10,000 calories worth of turkey, but are still hungry enough to sneak thirds from the fridge for a midnight snack. Or, perhaps you find yourself playing pirates in a game with your baby cousin…and being way too in it. And... CONTINUE READING 15

QUESTION: "Guys: What's the most crazy-stupid excuse you've ever used to break up with someone? (And why did you use it?!)" ANSWERS: Mr. Young and in Love SEE BIO NOW> Umm, from what I read on Sheckys.com, it's you ladies that use the crazy-stupid excuses to break up with us! Unfortunately (although I guess fortunately, really), you can count the amount of break-ups I've had on... CONTINUE READING 18

Steve Ward from VH1 Tough Love is giving us the scoop on relationships and men, and telling us if we should "date or ditch" our dudes. WHY DO MEN CHEAT?! A. I think men cheat because they aren’t completely satisfied in their relationship and they are in need of some sort of stimulation. Most of the time they are looking for something else that someone can give them. What is the best way to... CONTINUE READING 9

Happy 10th birthday to Shecky’s (have you checked out our amazing deals and more?)! In honor of the awesome party attitude that goes along with a b-day and our love for Fridays, we’re bringing you a TOP 10 AT 10AM every Friday. With the World Series getting closer, football season in full swing and hockey just starting up, October is a big month for... CONTINUE READING 11