Sure, we all want to find the picture perfect significant other for ourselves, but sometimes it's even more fun to pull a Fiddler and go full-on matchmaker on your friends. Nowadays, though, old school-style setting up friends for a dinner date just doesn't cut it anymore. Now you need to be a wingman, a bar-going buddy who will help field... CONTINUE READING 17

Admit it, you’re guilty of lying! Oh stop it, don’t even deny it. Hell, we all lie—especially when it comes to our men. You may think, “They’re white lies, no big deal right?” Wrong! Thing is, lies always come back to haunt you. Many of us lie because it helps dodge uncomfortable situations. As the cliché goes, the truth shall set you... CONTINUE READING 20

Relationships—no matter how long or short lived—are hard to say goodbye to. Every girl has felt the heartache of a breakup. Though sometimes things don’t work out romantically between former flames, that doesn’t mean that the friendship spark is dead. I’ve had two serious relationships in my life, one ending amicably and one, well, not so amicably, but despite the... CONTINUE READING 25

It's the day after Christmas, and chances are, you're dragging a little. All that excitement is over, you feel like Santa Claus himself after 10 too many cookies and you kinda don't want to get out of your new flannel PJ set. There’s nothing better than watching a feel-good romcom or an all-time classic snuggled up at home with your... CONTINUE READING 7

There was no ring, no bridesmaids, no teary-eyed dance with Dad, but somewhere along the way, you found yourself with a spouse. You see him every day…at the office. He’s your work spouse. And whether you chose each other or were thrown together, you probably know more about him than your best friend. Chances are, he knows you pretty well too,... CONTINUE READING 8

QUESTION: “I have this friend (not close best friend, but friend) that I ended up sleeping with. BUT, I really like him. Maybe more so than he likes me. Do I still have a shot with him? Or did I ruin it forever?” ANSWERS: Mr. Loves Boys Too SEE BIO NOW> So, you gave the milk away for free and now you’re trying to sell... CONTINUE READING 15

Steve Ward from VH1 Tough Love is giving us the scoop on relationships and men, and telling us if we should "date or ditch" our dudes. Do men prefer take-charge women, or easy-going girls? A. It really depends on the guy…usually a take-charge guy is going to like a take-charge woman and same with easy-going. But, if you are REALLY extreme take-charge or easy-going…you will likely go with the opposite. Is it really... CONTINUE READING 9

Let’s face it, ladies—we are extremely charming, beautiful and intelligent, so it should come as no surprise that a lot of men are too intimidated to approach the women they’re interested in. Enter Marni Kinrys, founder of The Wing Girl Method. Marni doesn’t feed guys pick-up lines, she gives them advice about how we think and what we really want.... CONTINUE READING 12

Today, we're celebrating our Always-Logged-On Girlfriends (have you voted in our National Girlfriend Awards yet?), so imagine our surprise when we heard that one of our very own Shecky's Staffers was into...video games. And this Staffer is a girl (we already knew about the obsession guys have with gaming, duh!). Read her story, and tell us if you're a gamer... CONTINUE READING 32

It may be the month to celebrate the National Girlfriend Awards (have you voted for the winners yet?), but we’re neglecting one huge thing here—our guy friends (aww!). In honor of our Boy-Crazy Girlfriends and lest the studs in our lives feel shorted, here are five famous fellas I wish I could call my BGFs (best guy friends!). -Cait Rohan The Musician:... CONTINUE READING 41