We all know what it looks like when a guy is flirting. The anchorman smile, the lilt in his voice, and the slightly awkward -- though often endearing -- opening line are all signs he’s playing the game. But what if a woman wants to pick and choose who she wants to charm and seduce? Flirting and communication expert Rachel DeAlto,... CONTINUE READING 12

Have you ever talked to a guy and wondered if he was into you? We are often so focused on what he is saying, that we don’t pay attention to what he is doing. Body language often speaks louder than the words out of his mouth! Never be fooled by a smooth talker again by knowing exactly what to look... CONTINUE READING 4

We are living in the digital age! So much of our conversations are now over text, e-mail, Twitter, and Facebook. We talk, flirt, fight, and make-up over text, and using it the right way can heat up any conversation. So what are the rules of flirtexting? Here are the basics to keep in mind when trying to sweeten and... CONTINUE READING 6

Getting into the right frame of mind when you are flirting, meeting people and dating is absolutely essential to meeting a great guy. Moreover, keeping the right frame of mind is even more important if you want him to stick around. From where I am, I see women with the wrong frame of mind either 1) playing it way too... CONTINUE READING 8

Guys can be a tough crowd! In my years working with singles, I have heard over and over from men that it is easy to get a guy, but keeping him around is the hard part. Guys tend to make quick decisions and if they aren’t feeling it, they move on. While a woman might give a guy another shot... CONTINUE READING 6

Admit it, you’re guilty of lying! Oh stop it, don’t even deny it. Hell, we all lie—especially when it comes to our men. You may think, “They’re white lies, no big deal right?” Wrong! Thing is, lies always come back to haunt you. Many of us lie because it helps dodge uncomfortable situations. As the cliché goes, the truth shall set you... CONTINUE READING 20

’Tis the season for office holiday parties—the time of year when you can pretty much count on two things: reputations being ruined and gossip running rampant. Don’t be the one to fall victim this time around. Here, eight office party slip-ups to avoid. Pickup lines. Outrageous in-your-face flirting with colleagues is prohibited. So is PDA with your... CONTINUE READING 4

There’s something about being home for the holidays that is kind of like taking mind-altering drugs. You stuff yourself without about 10,000 calories worth of turkey, but are still hungry enough to sneak thirds from the fridge for a midnight snack. Or, perhaps you find yourself playing pirates in a game with your baby cousin…and being way too in it. And... CONTINUE READING 15

In relationships, as in life, I’m an honest, if not so honest that I’m over-sharing sort of person. Which is why if someone sends me a funny text or I want to tell my boyfriend something that a friend just said, I’ll just hand him my phone and show him. One night at dinner, after a friend said something fairly... CONTINUE READING 61

When it comes to dating and relationships, it seems there are different rules for what’s “appropriate” on Facebook. But did you know Facebook accounts for 85% of evidence in divorce battles? Yikes! It’s time for some basic ‘Book rules to remember about dating, relationships and searching for a suitor. Rule #1: Be true to your status. If you're in a serious... CONTINUE READING 21