After yet another horrid single holiday season of showing up solo to festive fetes and smooching the wrong guys under the mistletoe, we’re definitely ready to revamp our dating life for the new year. If your 2012 was riddled with bad dates, bogus guys or one too many spinster nights spent home sobbing to Love Actually for the millionth... CONTINUE READING 16

Here are two facts we unequivocally know about every breakup: 1) They hurt like hell, and 2) You always get over them. Wouldn’t it be dreamy though if you could just hurry up and get to the “over it” part? If you could start moving forward right away? You can! Follow these tips to help you rebuild, renew and reinvigorate... CONTINUE READING 10

What’s the best revenge following a bad breakup? To give yourself a makeover that will leave you looking so smokin', he will be damn sorry he broke up with your fine self! Celebs like Jennifer Lopez, Halle Berry, Anne Hathaway and Katy Perry have bounced back from publicly bad breakups looking more fabulous than ever. With fitter bods, stylish new... CONTINUE READING 18

Recently single? Congratulations! Yes, that’s right—congratulations! Wrenching heartache aside, we think breakups rock. After all, when else do you have the opportunity for deep reflection, soul work and re-ignition? When else can you stare in the mirror and decide, 'today is the day I begin to think about love differently'? At The BreakUP Club, we believe that sometimes in love,... CONTINUE READING 17

Relationships—no matter how long or short lived—are hard to say goodbye to. Every girl has felt the heartache of a breakup. Though sometimes things don’t work out romantically between former flames, that doesn’t mean that the friendship spark is dead. I’ve had two serious relationships in my life, one ending amicably and one, well, not so amicably, but despite the... CONTINUE READING 25

Cheating is the topic on the tip of everyone’s tongues today (what’s up, Arnold?). But, what happens when you’re the other woman…and you don’t even know it? Yep, turns out you can be a homewrecker without being a malicious maneater. One Staffer shares how she unknowingly became part of a cheating scandal. “I had been seeing this guy for a... CONTINUE READING 24

Oh no, the dreaded couple conversation has been dropped on you: the break-up talk. He’s using bogus lines like “it’s not you, it’s me” and “you are better off without me,” which isn’t helping at all but hurting you more. We’ve all been there. Burn. Well instead of throwing yourself a month-long pity party consisting of sobbing solo, looking at... CONTINUE READING 22

So the title of the story kinda says it all, until you read this one Staffer’s hilarious albeit regrettable story. What should she have done? Weigh in and share all about your scandalous and regrettable hook-ups. This site is No Exes (No Boys!) Allowed! “Before you denounce me as some kind of heartless harlot when I say I slept with my... CONTINUE READING 26

As much as we want to be independent women, we can always get by even better with a little help from our friends, especially when it comes to life's ,large or small. In honor of National New Friends, Old Friends Week, we look at the serious side of friendship. One of our Shecky’s Staffers shares her story about how her... CONTINUE READING 1

Ever had a case of the couple comeback? As in, just when you thought things were over between an ex-flame and yourself forever, he's back to beg for you? Are redo relationships a go or a no-no? One Shecky’s Staffer weighs in on two redos—one ex who should've stayed (far,far!) away and one romance that got better with a double-take. “I... CONTINUE READING 3