Balm, according to the Merriam-Webster dictionary is, “an aromatic preparation (as a healing ointment)” or “a soothing restorative agency.” Basically, balm does wonders for dry skin, making it especially appropriate to use in winter. See five of my favorites, all of which come in cute packaging (ugly ointment tubes, begone!). -Cait Rohan I usually don’t trust my boyfriend for any beauty advice,... CONTINUE READING 17

We’ve all had those nights that give us headaches for days after. I recently suffered through one of said experiences, but my pain wasn’t solely due to alcohol. I wasn’t left feeling crummy because I’d entered a wet t-shirt contest (I have standards, you know!). I didn’t drunkenly drop my cell phone into the toilet either. And it certainly wasn’t because... CONTINUE READING 21

When I was little, I thought that when my cousin (who is 13 years my senior) had a new boyfriend, she simply picked one up from some sort of Boys ‘R’ Us. Boy, was I (unfortunately!!) wrong. Yes, one can only dream that there is a toy shop in which to pick out the perfect man (list of traits and past... CONTINUE READING 13

While we’re on the subject of everything tropical this Tuesday, I’d like to bring up a topic that has men looking a little more seasonally appropriate (read: warm for the winter): beards. Mainly, I want to know if you like your guys clean-shaven or fuzzy. But before you share your opinion, please ponder mine. I associate beards with laziness. My first... CONTINUE READING 32

QUESTION: Laura asks: What do you like most about being in a relationship other than sex—or do you only have relationships for the sex? What do you look for in a serious girlfriend/wife? ANSWERS: Mr. Loves Boys Too SEE BIO NOW> Really? A relationship for the sex? I’ve always had a lot more sex when I'm not in a relationship—and with multiple partners…sometimes at... CONTINUE READING 24

You’ve heard it once, you’ll hear it a thousand (2,011?!) times: January is time to make a fresh start in anything and everything. And whether you’re in a relationship, you have some guy that you’re not sure about, or you're a single lady who's dating around, we’re putting our foot (feet?) down on some typical boy behaviors. See our top 10,... CONTINUE READING 20

The following topic needs no frilly introduction—I’m just going to say it and let it stand naked (hehe!): sex fantasies. But before I start “wondering” about this issue, let me add a disclaimer: as humans, we all have to be a bit “weird” and “quirky” in order to be “normal.” That’s why sexual fantasies fascinate me so much. The shades... CONTINUE READING 14

Once upon a time, in a thing called my first serious relationship, I was overly concerned with remaining chill and not seeming “crazy” or overly demanding. Wasn’t asking my significant other to spend more time with me instead of playing World of Warcraft for the fifth night in a row too clingy? My "laid-backness" got so extreme that I ended... CONTINUE READING 33

Every Friday Shecky's brings you a new Crush of the Week, a guy so hot that we just had to share with you. Today, I'm giving you an extra whammy (try times 10!) as I list the top 10 hotties I'd most want to smooch at midnight. Boyfriends, hubbies, fiances fear not: remember ?! -Lynden Halpern RYAN REYNOLDS There's a reason he was... CONTINUE READING 24

A brand-new start in 2011 is only two days away. But before we at Shecky’s could make our resolutions for the stroke of midnight this Saturday, we took a look back at what we said we’d do in 2010…and if we’d successfully accomplished those items or not. See our resolutions, past and future (almost present), then share yours. What Was/Were Your 2010... CONTINUE READING 16