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BF or BFF?! Bounce Back From Crushing on Your Best Friend

Sometimes the problem with being just “one of the guys” is that you get stuck playing the part. Trust me, it’s a lackluster form of role-play removed of eroticism and crazy outfits—no fun! At one point or another, we've all had a less-than-platonic thought about our best guy friends. After all, they know you better than most, there's already a sense of... CONTINUE READING 13

The Pros & Cons of Being Busty

In a few short weeks, everyone will be excitedly breaking out the bikinis for Memorial Day weekend, and I will be secretly harboring two not-so-small balls of dread. Yes, my friends, I’m talking ‘bout my boobs. The sunny months of spring and summer are simultaneously the best and worst times to be a well-endowed woman. Sure, you may be thinking... CONTINUE READING 27

How Can I Get Him to Pursue Me?

As a professional matchmaker with 20 years experience bringing couples together, I love to watch trends—patterns of problematic dating issues developing in our culture. The troublesome question I’m seeing from my female clients this month: “How can I get the guy I’m interested in to pursue me?” And another: “I got a second date invitation from the man I didn’t really like, and the... CONTINUE READING 25