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		<title>5 Billboard Nominees We&#8217;re Surprised About</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 May 2013 04:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>meryl</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Airing this Sunday, May 19th is the <em>Billboard Music Awards</em>. So perhaps no one has truly watched this award show with genuine interest since he or she was about 14, but this show has its merits. There&#8217;s some credit to be made for artists who can top charts for weeks on end, especially with such finicky audiences. And while some of us are sad to see great artists go mainstream, at least we know that they are competing for spots against some of the music industry&#8217;s most wildly popular, and somewhat annoying, contestants. Let&#8217;s hope that host Tracy Morgan can rock the crowd. In the meantime, we can give you a brief re-cap and groan together as we share Billboard nominees we&#8217;re totally surprised about.  -<em>Meryl Lumba</em></p>
<h2 style="text-align: center">Flo Rida</h2>
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<p>We can&#8217;t believe he&#8217;s nominated for Top Male Artist. And we&#8217;ll say it again. His Hip-Hop/Pop singles, more often than not with another artist, are repetitive and clunky. We don&#8217;t even think DJs mix his songs at parties. It&#8217;s <em>that</em> awkward sounding.</p>
<h2 style="text-align: center">Maroon 5</h2>
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<p>Top Artist? Really? This band is nominated for a handful of awards, but have they actually produced anything decent since the early 2000s? Lead singer, Adam Levine, decided to pursue a horrible stint of acting on <em>American Horror Story</em>, which seemed like an odd publicity move to boost visibility. Now that he&#8217;s on the reality show <em>The Voice</em>, it seems that Maroon 5&#8242;s timeliness and re-emerging relevance actually worked out in the band&#8217;s favor.</p>
<h2 style="text-align: center">Chris Brown</h2>
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<p>If this man wins Top R&amp;B Artist (and Album!) over heavy-hitters like Usher, Alicia Keys, and Ne-Yo, our faith in the R&amp;B industry is gone. Someone as soulful and talented as Mary J. Blige should not be placed in the same category as someone like Chris Brown. Trust us, we haven&#8217;t forgotten about his &#8220;indiscretion.&#8221; How that didn&#8217;t cause his career to plummet for good, we&#8217;ll never know.</p>
<h2 style="text-align: center">Taylor Swift</h2>
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<p>&#8220;We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together&#8221;&#8211; really? How <em>complex</em>. Perhaps it can be argued that one is never writing anything of substance unless it&#8217;s coming from a place of anguish. But how many breakups can this girl write about? She is making money because of her linear notions about breakups. We should&#8217;ve whipped out our guitars first!</p>
<h2 style="text-align: center">Carly Rae Jepsen</h2>
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<p>We&#8217;ll admit it, &#8220;Call Me Maybe&#8221; was absolutely infectious, but does this warrant multiple nominations? Though not nearly as annoying as other artists, we&#8217;re still surprised to see her stand alongside folks like Carrie Underwood and Madonna.</p>
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		<title>5 Vegan Foods To Try Now</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 13:00:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>gracetexter</dc:creator>
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There are so many health trends out there that it's hard to keep track of what's good and what's just unsavory. When it comes to being a vegan, it [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: center" dir="ltr"><a rel="attachment wp-att-103892" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/17/5-vegan-foods-to-try-now/5-vegan-foods-to-try/"><img class="size-full wp-image-103892 aligncenter" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/5-vegan-foods-to-try.jpg" alt="Vegan Foods to Try Today" width="494" height="342" /></a></p>
<p dir="ltr">There are so many health trends out there that it&#8217;s hard to keep track of what&#8217;s good and what&#8217;s just unsavory. When it comes to being a vegan, it can be hard to find recipes and products that adhere to our dietary restrictions but don’t taste like glue. We did some research and gathered our 5 favorite products that all vegans and vegan-curious foodies must try.<em> &#8211; Grace Texter</em></p>
<p style="text-align: center"><img class="aligncenter" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/dM_ouSzaN88YNEGj1r3CnIUeA0Ufev-RHqD1gOj9yQP-g5do-VEdJaq34BiUaXUeDcSUVy5bbbPnoTTc4nFJtH9BQiPo_Nw8PHvT0gII7KvO2k2xXp22q0k4" alt="" width="374px;" height="334px;" /></p>
<h2 style="text-align: center">Chia Star</h2>
<p dir="ltr">The brand Chia Star uses chia seeds in their delicious beverage products to provide an excellent source of nutrients to their consumers. Chock full of antioxidants, omega 3’s, calcium, protein, and fiber, Chia Star drinks are also vegan and gluten free. Some of their flavors include Blackberry Lime Refresh, Peach Green Tea Fusion, Pineapple Honey Love, and their newest flavor Lemon Berry. We love this vegan product because it is just as nutritious for you as it is tasty. Visit <a href="http://www.chiastar.com/index.php">Chia Star’s website</a> for more information.</p>
<p style="text-align: center"><img class="aligncenter" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/cpo5P_YIAUJAOS3U2WDe0tvIfNi0nMUYbwkGKF5HBXZ5DPvKZhP9gBuJgR9gGjom8bAhvgaZrfbT9WzE3eEbb9RTPCMJYPfyxL3Wq7LLl7JagTR416tQNmwL" alt="" width="275px;" height="183px;" /></p>
<h2 style="text-align: center">Quinoa</h2>
<p dir="ltr">Quinoa is often compared to rice and may be prepared in the same way but it is not a whole grain, it is a seed. It is great as a substitute for any rice, barley, or pilaf in a recipe and can be served hot or cold. It is a great vegan food because it provides all 9 essential amino acids to help keep your unique diet balanced. It also is gluten-free and cholesterol-free. Check out <a href="http://ohmyveggies.com/40-vegetarian-quinoa-recipes/">this website</a> for some quinoa recipes you won’t be disappointed with.</p>
<p style="text-align: center" dir="ltr"><a rel="attachment wp-att-103895" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/17/5-vegan-foods-to-try-now/tofu-scramble-646/"><img class="size-medium wp-image-103895 aligncenter" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/tofu-scramble-646-300x213.jpg" alt="Tofu Scramble" width="300" height="213" /></a></p>
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<h2 style="text-align: center">Tofu Scramble</h2>
<p>You won&#8217;t believe it&#8217;s not eggs! All it takes is a bit of soft tofu and some herbs and spices, and you&#8217;ve got a totally vegan meal you might even think tastes better than the usual. Here&#8217;s a <a href="http://www.bonappetit.com/recipes/2013/01/tofu-scramble" target="_blank">tasty recipe</a> we love from Bon Appetit.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center"><img class="aligncenter" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/CVmyZN8kMOR0BPm1JUlVGq7RLcUsipC-DLXaV9xDcPxmYRgPxgkB0hEIkuU_wexK5qHh3iAnggHXyZ99drH-I0r3pRaGg3W5ScqpPiu4T0dqfwAXwAjjCVA0" alt="" width="377px;" height="250px;" /></p>
<h2 style="text-align: center">Chickpeas</h2>
<p dir="ltr">These little gems, also known as garbanzo beans, are full of protein and fiber. They taste delicious alone, in a salad, or (and widely favored) mashed up with some tahini and garlic for a delicious hummus dip. Here is a recipe for a vegan <a href="http://www.vegangela.com/2011/10/10/kale-chickpeas-with-creamy-cashew-sauce/">Creamy Cashew Kale and Chickpea</a> dish that will fill you up and leave you wanting for more vegan-licious delights!</p>
<p style="text-align: center"><img class="aligncenter" src="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/sGA1NSO1URpDZRLLPjc30a7YywUmI6IHNdS34EyCA1oPqEQ1Nq7MLnTYC5eq4uqsAdjRFpsPtpR6cejMGjvBpGE3PuEAmv4D0CmteN_8P0fCSJLXiFXKUQ1D" alt="" width="375px;" height="400px;" /></p>
<h2 style="text-align: center">Almond Milk</h2>
<p>Almond Milk is a delicious alternative to regular dairy milk; it is even more delicious with a subtle almond-y flavor and a consistency that makes you feel healthier just sipping it. When it comes to baking as a vegan, things can get tricky. In this regard, almond milk is a savior. This <a href="http://www.yummly.com/recipe/No-Bake-Espresso-_vegan_-Cookies-Naturally-Ella-46297?columns=3&amp;position=4/36">No-Bake Espresso Vegan Cookie</a> recipe uses almond milk instead of dairy, making sure we don’t have to compromise our vegan preferences.</p>
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		<title>High Brow Advice: How to Tweeze Like a Pro</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 04:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cassdaubenspeck</dc:creator>
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Planning on shaping your brows this summer? Get those arches in top shape with these tips and tricks provided by Kristie Streicher, the brow expert at Warren-Tricomi. From tweezing like [...]]]></description>
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<p>Planning on shaping your brows this summer? Get those arches in top shape with these tips and tricks provided by Kristie Streicher, the brow expert at Warren-Tricomi. From tweezing like a beauty pro to common brow myths, read on for the complete beauty scoop.- <em>Courtney Leiva</em></p>
<h1>DO</h1>
<h2>1. Let Your Eyebrows Fill In</h2>
<p>Refrain from tweezing or at least three weeks. This allows you to see the natural growth pattern and shape of your eyebrows. It allows the hair to be on one growth cycle, which means less tweezing altogether. When hairs are taken out at once they will all grow in at once putting them on one growth cycle rather than several.</p>
<h2>2. Use Good Tweezers In A Well Lit Place</h2>
<p>Tweeze hair in a comfortable, well and naturally lit space. Get a pair of good tweezers with sharp slanted edges!and pull hairs in the direction of growth. Hold skin taut while you are tweezing.If you are afraid of pain and want to make the process of brow tweezing less painful, use children’s teething gel to slightly numb the area. If you tweeze your eyebrows after you get out of the shower the skin is softer and pores are open therefore making tweezing less painful.</p>
<h2>3. Follow Your Own Natural Line</h2>
<p>All bone structure is different, and so are your eyebrows. Not sure where your eyebrows should be? Run your finger along your eyebrow bone. That&#8217;s exactly where the line of your eyebrow should be. If you try to arch your eyebrows too high above the bone, it will look unnatural. Stay with the arch that works best with your bone structure. It&#8217;s the one that you naturally have already. If you draw an invisible line from the corner of the nose straight up towards the forehead, this is where the eyebrows should start. The arch should fall just outside the pupil and should go all the way across the brow bone.</p>
<h1>DON&#8217;T</h1>
<h2>1.Don’t Over Tweeze Or Over Cut</h2>
<p>Over cutting the hairs on your brow can be just as detrimental as tweezing. In some cases with thin or sparse eyebrows, the longer ones can help to fill in sparse areas. Shape is dependent on how the eyebrows lay, so if they are cut too short they will not lay right. Brush eyebrows straight up and trim the hairs that stick out too far, one at a time. Then do the same brushing hair down.</p>
<h2>2.  Don’t Tweeze More Than One Hair At A Time</h2>
<p>After pulling a few hairs, step back and look at the entire face. Sometimes hairs that look like they need to be tweezed up close are actually a part of the eyebrow and can make a hole if removed. A magnified mirror is not recommended, if you can&#8217;t see the hair in a regular mirror then neither can anyone else.</p>
<h2>3. Don’t Be Afraid To Tweeze The Top Of The Eyebrow</h2>
<p>It is an old eyebrow myth that is heard too often to never tweeze from the top. Every eyebrow is different and some do not need this, but it is often required to achieve the perfect shape. I recommend doing this last to prevent making them too thin.</p>
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		<title>Perfect White Dresses: All in a Row</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 04:00:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cassdaubenspeck</dc:creator>
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Our favorite spring three day weekend is approaching, and while Memorial Day is the "official" kickoff of white clothing season, we've got a list of cute numbers that'll fly even [...]]]></description>
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<p><strong>Our favorite spring three day weekend</strong> is approaching, and while Memorial Day is the &#8220;official&#8221; kickoff of white clothing season, we&#8217;ve got a list of cute numbers that&#8217;ll fly even a week early. That&#8217;s right, forget the old maxim that says white can only be worn AFTER May 27. Be bold. Be daring. Take your pick from our picks, and get your white on girl. It&#8217;s what you wear, but also how you wear it. &#8211; <em>Cass Daubenspeck</em></p>
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<p style="text-align: center"><a rel="attachment wp-att-103914" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/17/perfect-white-dresses-all-in-a-row/nicole-miller-maxi/"><img class="size-medium wp-image-103914 aligncenter" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/Nicole-Miller-Maxi-218x300.jpg" alt="Perfect White Dresses from Shecky's" width="218" height="300" /></a></p>
<h2 style="text-align: center"><a href="http://www.sheckyscloset.com/index.php/closet_en/lindsay-maxi-dress-in-white-4665.html#.UZUX-krm440" target="_blank">Nicole Miller Maxi Dress</a></h2>
<p>A sheer white skirt overlays the short, white, racerback bodice of this lovely dress. Nicole Miller&#8217;s signature cotton fabric gives a gorgeous matte lustre and comfortable stretch. Available as part of a $50 subscription to <a href="http://www.sheckyscloset.com/index.php/closet_en/lindsay-maxi-dress-in-white-4665.html#.UZUb2Urm440" target="_blank">Shecky&#8217;s Closet</a>.</p>
<p style="text-align: center"><a rel="attachment wp-att-103921" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/17/perfect-white-dresses-all-in-a-row/mango-white-dress/"><img class="size-medium wp-image-103921 aligncenter" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/mango-white-dress-235x300.jpg" alt="Mango White Dress" width="235" height="300" /></a></p>
<h2 style="text-align: center"><a href="http://www.asos.com/Mango/Mango-Shirt-Dress/Prod/pgeproduct.aspx?iid=2955547&amp;cid=8189&amp;Rf900=1544&amp;sh=0&amp;pge=0&amp;pgesize=9999&amp;sort=-1&amp;clr=White&amp;utm_source=google_product_search&amp;utm_medium=paid&amp;utm_campaign=google_product_search&amp;WT.tsrc=Google%20Product%20Search&amp;WT.srch=1&amp;affid=2365&amp;WT.srch=1" target="_blank">Mango Shirt Dress</a></h2>
<p>This breathable linen dress with a sophisticated point collar gives way to a flirty deep V neckline and fitted waist. A cute, comfortable number to wear around every day with Chucks, or on a casual date with heels. No pressure to accessorize. This one stands up well on its own. ($59.40)</p>
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<p style="text-align: center"><a rel="attachment wp-att-103937" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/17/perfect-white-dresses-all-in-a-row/asos-white-dress/"><img class="size-medium wp-image-103937 aligncenter" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/asos-white-dress-235x300.jpg" alt="" width="235" height="300" /></a></p>
<h2 style="text-align: center"><a href="http://us.asos.com/Motel-Catalina-Skater-Dress/103iqk/?iid=2946632&amp;cid=15801&amp;Rf-200=5&amp;sh=0&amp;pge=0&amp;pgesize=200&amp;sort=-1&amp;clr=White&amp;mporgp=L01vdGVsL01vdGVsLUNhdGFsaW5hLVNrYXRlci1EcmVzcy9Qcm9kLw.." target="_blank">Motel Catalina Skater Dress</a></h2>
<p>Another not-to-miss number from ASOS. Inspired by vintage prints and cuts, this dress is designed by Motel, known for embracing the feminine silhouette. Your go-to dress for date night this spring and summer.  ($64.49)</p>
<h2 style="text-align: center"><a rel="attachment wp-att-103938" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/17/perfect-white-dresses-all-in-a-row/rory-wd261_v1/"><img class="size-medium wp-image-103938 aligncenter" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/RORY-WD261_V1-209x300.jpg" alt="" width="209" height="300" /></a></h2>
<h2 style="text-align: center"><a href="http://www.revolveclothing.com/DisplayProduct.jsp?product=RORY-WD261&amp;c=" target="_blank">Rory Beca Emilion Roset Dress </a></h2>
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<div>Fully lined model dress by Rory Edelman, with adjustable shoulder straps, underwire cups, and a drawstring waist tie. This cute number transitions from the farmer&#8217;s market to the club with the addition of a dazzling necklace and a glitzy clutch. ($209)</div>
<p style="text-align: center"><a rel="attachment wp-att-103942" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/17/perfect-white-dresses-all-in-a-row/asos-off-shoulder-shift/"><img class="size-medium wp-image-103942 aligncenter" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/ASOS-off-shoulder-shift-235x300.jpg" alt="" width="235" height="300" /></a></p>
<h2 style="text-align: center"><a href="http://www.asos.com/ASOS/ASOS-Off-Shoulder-Shift-Dress/Prod/pgeproduct.aspx?iid=2809757&amp;cid=13596&amp;Rf-200=5&amp;sh=0&amp;pge=0&amp;pgesize=20&amp;sort=-1&amp;clr=White" target="_blank">ASOS Off-Shoulder Shift Dress</a></h2>
<p>After a long day of tanning in your bandeau top, show off those beautiful bronze shoulders with this off-shoulder shifter. You won&#8217;t pay for any drinks in this one. ($59.40)</p>
<p style="text-align: center"><a rel="attachment wp-att-103943" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/17/perfect-white-dresses-all-in-a-row/asos-white/"><img class="size-medium wp-image-103943 aligncenter" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/asos-white-235x300.jpg" alt="" width="235" height="300" /></a></p>
<h2 style="text-align: center"><a href="http://www.asos.com/ASOS/ASOS-Shift-In-Embossed-Scuba-Dress/Prod/pgeproduct.aspx?iid=2815379&amp;cid=13596&amp;Rf-200=5&amp;sh=0&amp;pge=0&amp;pgesize=20&amp;sort=-1&amp;clr=White" target="_blank">ASOS Shift Dress in Embossed Scuba</a></h2>
<p>Red shoes. Red lips. Red nails. Rock this high-neck, high-fashion dress that&#8217;s straight from the runway with bold, feminine accessories. It&#8217;s an instant knockout, which is why we don&#8217;t suggest wearing it to your best friend&#8217;s wedding. At least not in white. ($59.40)</p>
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		<title>Moves You Think He Loves&#8230;But He Doesn&#8217;t</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 19:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cassdaubenspeck</dc:creator>
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Ladies. There are so many things guys do wrong in bed. But how often do we check ourselves? Here's a list of general (mis)understandings we have about what guys want, [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: center"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-103952" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/moves-you-think-he-loves-300x207.jpg" alt="He Totally Doesn't Love These Moves" width="300" height="207" /></p>
<p>Ladies. There are so many things guys do wrong in bed. But how often do we check ourselves? Here&#8217;s a list of general (mis)understandings we have about what guys want, according to a few dudes who were eager to share with us.</p>
<h2>1. Perfume and Deodorant</h2>
<p style="text-align: center"><a rel="attachment wp-att-103957" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/16/moves-you-think-he-loves-but-he-doesnt/men-smell-different-1/"><img class="size-medium wp-image-103957 aligncenter" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/men-smell-different-1-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
<p>Men are much more &#8220;animal&#8221; than women when it comes to hygiene. While we take extra care to make sure we&#8217;re smelling like new rain before rolling in the sheets, men would actually prefer if we just smelled like ourselves. Our bodies, like men&#8217;s, secrete chemical compounds known as pheromones. It&#8217;s these chemicals that play a profound role in sexual communication, and we rely on the nose to pick up their presence. If we smell like fresh laundry before hopping in the sack, it won&#8217;t tell a guy anything. In fact it might call to mind images of the laundry room from his childhood home. Presumably not what we were going for.</p>
<p>Bottom Line: Men are 1,000 times less sensitive to musk than women, which makes it more important that we try not to cover up the &#8220;natural&#8221; scent of our bodies. (We&#8217;re not talking rank body odor here, just the way you normally smell without having put on a bunch of Calvin Klein).</p>
<h2>2. Playing Submissive Jane</h2>
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<p>Men rely on us to move, to make noise, to give nonverbal cues for what&#8217;s working and what&#8217;s not. Just lying there is boring for him, and makes him think he&#8217;s hurting you. A guy is likely to lose steam when he&#8217;s not getting a response from you. He needs your feedback in the moment.</p>
<h2>3. Refusing to Kiss Him During Sex</h2>
<p style="text-align: center"><a rel="attachment wp-att-103960" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/16/moves-you-think-he-loves-but-he-doesnt/refusing-to-kiss-2/"><img class="size-medium wp-image-103960 aligncenter" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/refusing-to-kiss-2-300x168.jpg" alt="Refusing to Kiss" width="300" height="168" /></a></p>
<p>It&#8217;s good to be the boss. But when you&#8217;re holding back displaying your emotions so you can dominate him, he won&#8217;t understand. &#8220;Men like to be kissed, just like women.&#8221;</p>
<h2>4. Sexy Lingerie</h2>
<p style="text-align: center"><a rel="attachment wp-att-103961" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/16/moves-you-think-he-loves-but-he-doesnt/sexy-lingerie/"><img class="size-medium wp-image-103961 aligncenter" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/sexy-lingerie-202x300.jpg" alt="" width="202" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>Men are visual creatures, so naturally we think they enjoy this. Truth? They don&#8217;t care much! Put on a corset with lacy, barely-there panties and he&#8217;ll definitely be pleased, but he&#8217;ll be more excited to take it off! Think twice about forking over the moolah for what amounts to clothing you&#8217;ll wear for a few seconds, only to throw on the floor.</p>
<h2>5. Scratching and Biting</h2>
<p style="text-align: center"><a rel="attachment wp-att-103962" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/16/moves-you-think-he-loves-but-he-doesnt/scratching-and-biting-2/"><img class="size-medium wp-image-103962 aligncenter" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/scratching-and-biting-2-300x155.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="155" /></a></p>
<p>There&#8217;s a general consensus among dudes that this can be hot. Who doesn&#8217;t love a little roughhousing once in a while? The thing is, scratching and biting are easy to take too far, without even realizing it. Most guys would be happier if you didn&#8217;t rev it up to this level.</p>
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		<title>Pastry Porn: The Best Blogs For Your Sweet Tooth</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 04:00:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>gracetexter</dc:creator>
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We here at Shecky’s love to bring in sweets to the office to treat ourselves when we feel like indulging. These sporadic spurts of sweet morsels usually are sparked by [...]]]></description>
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<p dir="ltr">We here at Shecky’s love to bring in sweets to the office to treat ourselves when we feel like indulging. These sporadic spurts of sweet morsels usually are sparked by someone stumbling onto any of the many food blogs that we are obsessed with. We decided to share some of our favorite pastry and dessert blogs with you so you can get just as inspired as we are by the many delectable recipes!<em> &#8211; Grace Texter</em></p>
<p style="text-align: center" dir="ltr"><em><a rel="attachment wp-att-103855" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/16/pastry-porn-the-best-blogs-for-your-sweet-tooth/speculoos-butter-me-up/"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-103855" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/speculoos-butter-me-up.jpg" alt="Butter Me Up Brooklyn Speculoos" width="550" height="366" /></a><br />
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<h2 style="text-align: center">Butter Me Up Brooklyn</h2>
<h2 style="text-align: center"><a href="http://buttermeupbrooklyn.com/">http://buttermeupbrooklyn.com/</a></h2>
<p dir="ltr">This fantastic blog by Lillie has the most scrumptious recipes of every kind. But we especially covet her various sweets. From her brownies to her tarts, we trust that every recipe will produce a delicious dessert that will leave us wanting more&#8230; and MORE!</p>
<p style="text-align: center" dir="ltr"><a rel="attachment wp-att-103856" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/16/pastry-porn-the-best-blogs-for-your-sweet-tooth/ginger-cake-slice-glutenfree-with-pink-frosting-by-mary-banducci/"><img class="size-full wp-image-103856 aligncenter" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/Ginger-Cake-Slice-glutenfree-with-Pink-Frosting-by-MAry-Banducci.jpg" alt="" width="640" height="424" /></a></p>
<h2 style="text-align: center">Sweet Roots</h2>
<h2 style="text-align: center"><a href="http://sweetroots.blogspot.com" target="_blank">www.sweetroots.blogspot.com</a></h2>
<p style="text-align: left" dir="ltr">We love to hate this blog because all the photos are beautiful and make us hungry at our desks. Author Mary Banducci calls herself a modern-day forager, mother, wife, and as you&#8217;ll see, an incredibly talented chef of non-dairy gluten-free foods. The recipe for the <a href="http://sweetroots.blogspot.com/2012/11/ginger-cake-with-cranberry-rose-cream.html" target="_blank">Ginger Cake</a> pictured above is to die.</p>
<p style="text-align: center"><img class="aligncenter" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/dnG9b-jeSYGLT3gIqvNWg-RDawdMRi1qDixsyOcB6gpxQQ7eJI_N5qKtujXhDN3vt_CmLmWL_YsAJFaxvpnqJitM_bFhY-wBKblYjJk1TDgeOpRc7tJRIN0hXA" alt="" width="512px;" height="512px;" /></p>
<h2 style="text-align: center">Orangette</h2>
<h2 style="text-align: center"><a href="http://orangette.blogspot.com/">http://orangette.blogspot.com/</a></h2>
<p dir="ltr">This quaint blog by Molly hosts fantastic recipes alongside actual blog posts focused around Molly’s life (and her scrumptious little baby) that keep us coming back for more! What more could you ask for than tasty recipes with great reading on the side that inspires you to follow your dreams?</p>
<p style="text-align: center" dir="ltr"><a rel="attachment wp-att-103857" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/16/pastry-porn-the-best-blogs-for-your-sweet-tooth/lemon-coconut-bars-71-366x550/"><img class="size-full wp-image-103857 aligncenter" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/lemon-coconut-bars-71-366x550.jpg" alt="" width="366" height="550" /></a></p>
<h2 style="text-align: center">A Splash of Vanilla</h2>
<h2 style="text-align: center"><a href="http://www.asplashofvanilla.com">www.asplashofvanilla.com</a></h2>
<p style="text-align: left" dir="ltr">We love Emma from Australia, and how her sweet personality matches her love of sweets. She&#8217;s got the best taste in dessert, and her recipes often suggest &#8220;smashing up some biscuits&#8221; like for these <a href="http://www.asplashofvanilla.com/2012/06/17/lemon-coconut-bars-no-bake/" target="_blank">Lemon Coconut Bars</a>.</p>
<p style="text-align: center" dir="ltr"><a rel="attachment wp-att-103858" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/16/pastry-porn-the-best-blogs-for-your-sweet-tooth/marble-cookies/"><img class="size-full wp-image-103858 aligncenter" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/marble-cookies.jpeg" alt="Food 52 Marble Cookies" width="584" height="389" /></a></p>
<h2 style="text-align: center">Food52</h2>
<h2 style="text-align: center"><a href="http://www.food52.com" target="_blank">www.food52.com</a></h2>
<p>If you haven&#8217;t discovered the Food52 phenomenon yet, you are really in for a treat. This website has a whole archive of delicious recipes constantly rolling in. You&#8217;ll not only get a slew of ideas for tonight&#8217;s dinner every single day, but you may find a recipe for chocolate cabernet cake and before you realize anything has happened, it&#8217;s 7 hours later.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center"><img class="aligncenter" src="https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/dQJd3-jNGyra4D3HR7M91a2WARoUBG2MkziQL3QV3r5QkOGvjuznPuVtCSo3h2BbKwbwdZ2YR3D0Ek--Uf_2RfckkI1QixjUB6oXZFXv0BVZlcM-sAZOttFOfw" alt="" width="500px;" height="375px;" /></p>
<h2 style="text-align: center">Pastry Studio</h2>
<h2 style="text-align: center"><a href="http://pastrystudio.blogspot.com/">http://pastrystudio.blogspot.com/</a></h2>
<p dir="ltr">We love the way Pastry Studio treats each sweet treat like an artistic masterpiece. Photographed with delicacy and precision, the morsels couldn’t look more mouth-watering. And each recipe is written in prose that convinces you to dive right in and start baking! Go for it!</p>
<p style="text-align: center"><img class="aligncenter" src="https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/GcQZK5bPRfxvLhplZPoZEZlQoYgTmpz-fsootAf9zoYwgtVL3HB1jfzBTF4xCL4NIS0SRk7Blo0gW8bJw3MZwVjI78AW2QUgGj9J8jAIDvbRAyzQDCM98ssbAw" alt="" width="367px;" height="550px;" /></p>
<h2 style="text-align: center">Baking Obsession</h2>
<h2 style="text-align: center"><a href="http://www.bakingobsession.com/">http://www.bakingobsession.com/</a></h2>
<p dir="ltr">It is almost torture to scroll through Baking Obsession because each and every recipe gets better and better and BETTER! If that is even possible&#8230; Vera has turned her obsession for baking into her career and generously shares her creations with all of us! Of course, we may not make it as beautiful as she, but it tastes so good so we have to forgive ourselves for any error in presentation&#8230; right?</p>
<p style="text-align: center"><img class="aligncenter" src="https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/XzpAJE_z7eAt8PiRloj_edqGv4M2wDRkZP1Z6lOv9LCgrszVw97nCVH4Gh-72BzdMztqdawgd8JqC5YjmWTPyOR9TJwUjVxQoDY43-RincCodhpeNH3uZgWcJA" alt="" width="500px;" height="374px;" /></p>
<h2 style="text-align: center">Dorie Greenspan</h2>
<h2 style="text-align: center"><a href="http://doriegreenspan.com/dorie_greenspan/index.html">http://doriegreenspan.com</a></h2>
<p>While Dorie has many recipes of various categories, she is a master of all things sweet! She has written many a cookbook and mainly focused on sweets and cakes. However, we love her blog because she not only shares her recipes with us, she keeps us updated on social media and issues that are important to her. Way to go Dorie! Keep on keepin’ on!</p>
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		<title>How to Make Him Happy? Surprising Insights He Wants You To Know.</title>
		<link>http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/16/make-yourself-happy-it-makes-him-happy-interview-with-jenn-flaa/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 04:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cassdaubenspeck</dc:creator>
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Jenn Flaa, author of The Happiness Handbook, knows a thing or two about joy. She went from being a chubby, miserable divorcee who owned a high tech company that was [...]]]></description>
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<p>Jenn Flaa, author of <a href="http://www.happiness-handbook.com/" target="_blank">The Happiness Handbook</a>, knows a thing or two about joy. She went from being a chubby, miserable divorcee who owned a high tech company that was barely  hanging on, to a successful CEO and lead singer in a rock band. When it comes to happiness, she says, making your man happy, your boss happy, and your family happy,  starts with yourself. Read on for her surprising insights. &#8211; Victoria Barton</p>
<p style="text-align: center"><a rel="attachment wp-att-103825" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/16/make-yourself-happy-it-makes-him-happy-interview-with-jenn-flaa/jenn-flaa/"><img class="size-medium wp-image-103825 aligncenter" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/jenn-flaa-272x300.png" alt="Jenn Flaa" width="272" height="300" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: justify"><strong>TELL MEN WHAT YOU WANT</strong> I work in high tech and I’m a musician, so a lot of my friends are guys and I have two brothers, and they all talk about how they can’t read women’s minds, and women—especially around sex—don’t seem to share enough with their guy. Or, when women talk, they don’t get to the point right away, and the guy gets lost in the conversation. In the book, the idea is to help the woman really get clear in her life what makes her happy, what makes her mad, what she likes about sex, and get it to the place where she can have that conversation straight-on with her guy instead of beating around the bush, or expecting the guy to read her mind. I grew up thinking that if you were “the one,” you would know what I want. And yet, I don’t really have that capability for the guy. I think that you garner some of that over time in paying attention, but it’s not instinctual.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify"><a rel="attachment wp-att-103826" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/16/make-yourself-happy-it-makes-him-happy-interview-with-jenn-flaa/the-happiness-handbook-jenn-flaa/"><img class="size-medium wp-image-103826 alignright" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/The-Happiness-Handbook-Jenn-Flaa-207x300.jpg" alt="" width="207" height="300" /></a><strong>MAKE HAPPINESS YOUR OWN RESPONSIBILITY</strong> In the book, I talk about happiness being<em> your</em> responsibility. You can’t wait for someone to show up and make you happy, you have to know what makes you happy first. For instance, I love flowers. Having flowers in my home makes me happy, but I don’t have to wait for my guy to stop off at the store and grab some. I can go out and do that!  In the book, I have several different worksheets that you can go through, like “What are the top 5 things that make you happy?” There’s also a dating checklist that asks questions like “What’s your favorite color” or “What’s one of your favorite dates?” or “What’s your favorite type of coffee?” They’re all little things, but it’s the teeny things that matter when guys do them—those make the girl know that he likes you, and he’s paying attention.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify"><strong> DO A HAPPY DANCE</strong> The key is not just to tell him when he&#8217;s made you happy, but show him visually that you&#8217;re happy. That’s a mistake I made in my marriage, I’d say, “Well, thank you honey.” Men are so visual that the “Oh, thank you honey” did not enter his man-brain but since my marriage, if I light up my face, or I do a happy dance, you can see it register in their bodies that they got it. Then, it’s like scoring a touchdown or a winning goal or whatever they know, and they know they did a good thing and they’re more likely to repeat it once they get that positive reinforcement. It’s a good thing to experiment with.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify"><a rel="attachment wp-att-103829" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/16/make-yourself-happy-it-makes-him-happy-interview-with-jenn-flaa/the-happiness-handbook/"><img class="size-full wp-image-103829 alignleft" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/the-happiness-handbook.jpg" alt="The Happiness Handbook" width="225" height="224" /></a>In my talks, I’ve had some women, especially some of the women that are more reserved, say, “I can’t do it.” Here’s an example: what if a guy took you out to Arby’s, and you just love those roast beef sandwiches. So what if instead of doing a happy dance or anything, but what if you took a bite and you react by saying, “OH MY GOD that hits the spot!” They’re going to get that. You can experiment with when being visual in your happiness feels good to you, and still registers with the guy.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify"><strong> </strong>Once you start seeing the effect that your happiness has on guys, you’re getting the positive reinforcement that being more expressive makes the other guy happy. We tend to always want to make other people happy, so if just being happy makes the other person happy, then that’s easy.</p>
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		<title>How To Do Denim: Right Now</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 04:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>gracetexter</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p dir="ltr">Denim. My oldest and dearest friend. Isn&#8217;t it to all of us? There are so many ways to wear denim that attempting to write about it is almost impossible. However, we have outlined some ways to add denim to your wardrobe that are totally trending right now.  <em>- Grace Texter</em></p>
<p style="text-align: center"><img src="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/YTtNmfUT-WOgNgBSHd5HZcsqTuk0t3JttpfJQTwb2IziqeYffYk_3-76uRd50Uzmn2ESIxGgqTXRxcasi_qq5aZUIypuWqK8U8G6-zRnRugL7hUXD09XDtcVqw" alt="" width="413px;" height="550px;" /></p>
<h1 style="text-align: center">Denim Shirt Dress</h1>
<p dir="ltr">Denim is the perfect fabric for a summer dress! And a shirt dress is so versatile you will wear this into the fall and break it out again in the spring! Wear it with a cute sun hat and some sandals. You’ll be turning heads wherever you are in this ensemble.</p>
<p style="text-align: center"><img src="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/z_wx-xIAlOa6VifuFKNrWogRGHUX8SHWTlNCkL7IGp0RQgYBA1Ptydq23zMNuFbb1cxCLVZrkGU2u5qNsr4g6QebYqbbtdEMCu7eVXF9ve7SA1ZoQrVv1r22ng" alt="" width="367px;" height="550px;" /></p>
<h1 style="text-align: center">Denim on Denim</h1>
<p dir="ltr">When we suggest that you try denim on denim, we want you to avoid digressing back into the bad 90’s trend of a singular colored denim from head-to-toe. Instead, pair a chambray shirt or jean jacket of one hue with a pair of jeans, in a different hue or even in white. This is a classic look, perfect for any casual gathering, especially beachside or at the yacht club.</p>
<p style="text-align: center"><img src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/c0CjbnXpk3WX6YC583GzmWs6tT4Kse4eP9PAElJ_jUI69qEiUWTVikM_7asFPlmkDRUfVb8ZX6lt487Vk_kIDL_ErQFsldo9yzYOw_2RehFUM6XH9uFEW6jVHg" alt="" width="406px;" height="550px;" /></p>
<h1 style="text-align: center">Denim Overalls</h1>
<p>I know. I see you scratching your head. But overalls are not restricted to life on the farm! Denim overalls can be super chic if done properly. Go for a clean pair, no distressed holes or patches. Too much on overalls can push you more towards frumpy instead of fashion-forward. Consider wearing overalls, cuffed at the bottom with a pair of heels and a simple t-shirt. This combo is both cute and unexpected!</p>
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		<title>6 Recipes Everyone Should Know</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 13:00:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cassdaubenspeck</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your mama would rest easy if she knew you had these basics down pat. They&#8217;re the recipes that could not only change your life, but give you confidence in the kitchen and comfort at the table. They&#8217;ll help you win friends and influence people. Who needs social-media hashtags when you can make the perfect #homemade #macandcheese? These are the recipes we should all know inside-out and upside-down. What else should go on this list? Sound off in the comments.  &#8211; <em>Cass Daubenspeck</em></p>
<h1>Scrambled Eggs</h1>
<p style="text-align: center"><a rel="attachment wp-att-103790" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/15/6-recipes-everyone-should-know/scrambled-eggs/"><img class="size-medium wp-image-103790 aligncenter" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/scrambled-eggs-300x199.jpg" alt="Scrambled Eggs" width="300" height="199" /></a></p>
<p>Beat eggs, dash of optional milk, salt, pepper. Melt a little butter over medium heat, add the egg mix, and massage minimally with spatula. Remove when slightly undercooked. High heat and lots of movement makes for tough eggs.</p>
<h1>Roasted Chicken</h1>
<p style="text-align: center"><a rel="attachment wp-att-103789" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/15/6-recipes-everyone-should-know/roasted-chicken/"><img class="size-medium wp-image-103789 aligncenter" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/roasted-chicken-300x300.jpg" alt="Roasted Chicken" width="300" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>Wash chicken, cut the backbone with poultry scissors (gotta learn to do it some time). Pat dry. Season all over with olive oil, salt, dried rosemary, pepper. Place in oven preheated to 475 for about 20-25 minutes. Now take some of the bastings, mix in a mug with paprika, and brush over chicken. After 30 minutes reduce heat to 350 and cook for an hour longer, brushing chicken with paprika and juice every 20 minutes.</p>
<h1>Roasted Vegetables</h1>
<p style="text-align: center"><a rel="attachment wp-att-103788" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/15/6-recipes-everyone-should-know/roasted-vegetables/"><img class="size-full wp-image-103788 aligncenter" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/roasted-vegetables.jpg" alt="Roasted Vegetables" width="216" height="216" /></a></p>
<p>Slice up onions, carrots, butternut squash, potatoes (yumm) etc. Toss in olive oil and kosher salt. Spread out thinly on cookie sheet. Throw in 425-degree oven for about 10-15 minutes, knock heat down to 400 and cook until tender.</p>
<h1>Steak</h1>
<p style="text-align: center"><a rel="attachment wp-att-103791" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/15/6-recipes-everyone-should-know/cast-iron-grilled-strip-steaks/"><img class="size-medium wp-image-103791 aligncenter" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/Cast-Iron-Grilled-Strip-Steaks-300x199.jpg" alt="Cast Iron " width="300" height="199" /></a></p>
<p>Take a good steak, pat it dry, salt it on each side, and throw in sizzling hot cast iron pan with butter for 5 minutes a side for medium rare. Let rest for five minutes.</p>
<h1>Homemade Mac n&#8217; Cheese</h1>
<p style="text-align: center"><a rel="attachment wp-att-103792" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/15/6-recipes-everyone-should-know/macandcheese/"><img class="size-medium wp-image-103792 aligncenter" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/macandcheese-300x225.jpg" alt="Macaroni and Cheese" width="300" height="225" /></a></p>
<p>Easy Mac is over. Especially once you realize how tasty homemade mac is. Here&#8217;s what you do:</p>
<p>Boil water for your pasta. In another pot on low heat, add 1 cup milk, salt, 1/4 cup whole wheat flour, and stir gently. Add about 1.5 cups shredded cheese and stir slowly until it&#8217;s melted and starts to thicken like a paste. Add salt, pour the cheese sauce over the cooked pasta. Add hot sauce.</p>
<h1>Basic Tomato Sauce</h1>
<p style="text-align: center"><a rel="attachment wp-att-103793" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/15/6-recipes-everyone-should-know/tomatosauce25/"><img class="size-medium wp-image-103793 aligncenter" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/tomatosauce25-300x199.jpg" alt="Tomato Sauce" width="300" height="199" /></a></p>
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<div>What you do:</p>
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<li>In a large saucepan over medium heat, saute 3/4 chopped onion and 5 cloves minced garlic in 1/4 cup olive oil until onion is soft.</li>
<li>Stir in 2 28 ounce cans crushed tomatoes, salt, 1 tsp. sugar, as much dried oregano as you want (usually about 2 tbsp) and bay leaf. Cover, reduce heat to low, and simmer 90 minutes.</li>
<li>Stir in 1 6 ounce can tomato paste, basil, 1/2 teaspoon pepper and simmer 30 minutes more.</li>
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		<title>Fabulous Vegan Fashions</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 04:30:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>cassdaubenspeck</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For clothing to be truly vegan, it doesn&#8217;t use leather, wool, or silk. But that doesn&#8217;t mean it has to be made with tacky materials, ugly colors and shoddy construction. Here are 8 vegan fashion finds that will bring a pop of color and compassion to your wardrobe this spring, whether you&#8217;re a treehugger or just fond of soft and cuddly creatures. Whatever the season, animal compassion never goes out of style. &#8211; <em>Cass Daubenspeck</em></p>
<h1>Stella McCartney&#8217;s Sebellica</h1>
<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-103577" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/15/fabulous-vegan-fashions/stella-mccartney-sebellica-tennis-shoes/" target="_blank"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-103577" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/stella-mccartney-sebellica-tennis-shoes-300x300.jpg" alt="Stella McCartney Sebellica Tennis Shoes" width="300" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>We are loving <a href="http://www.tennis-warehouse.com/adidas_by_Stella_McCartney_Sebellica_Yellow_Shoe/descpageWSADIDAS-ASMSES.html?gclid=CMbznrW7k7cCFQpN4Aodvg8AXQ" target="_blank">these bright yellow sneaks</a> with a modified herringbone pattern. The midsole is super cushiony for forefront propulsion. The microfibre materials used as a substitute for leather are long-lasting and not tanned with toxic heavy metals like conventional leather. ($180)</p>
<h1>Gunas Tote Bag</h1>
<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-103584" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/15/fabulous-vegan-fashions/gunas-orange-tote-high-res/" target="_blank"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-103584" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/Gunas-Orange-Tote-HIGH-RES-300x270.jpg" alt="Gunas tote bag" width="300" height="270" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.gunasthebrand.com/categorylist.php?type=9&amp;price=&amp;cat=2#page=2" target="_blank">GUNAS bags</a> are bold and edgy, and make a statement for those who want to differentiate themselves in a crowd. We love this Melrose tote, in burnt orange with gold studded detail and beautiful faux suede lining. You could win it for free! This bag will be a raffle prize at <a href="http://theseedexperience.com/events/special-thanks/" target="_blank">The Seed Experience</a> event (May 18th &amp; 19th). Brush up on some vegan knowledge while you&#8217;re there, and check out some tasty plant-based treats.</p>
<h1>Mata Traders Garden Dress</h1>
<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-103585" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/15/fabulous-vegan-fashions/mod-retro-vintage/"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-103585" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/mod-retro-vintage-210x300.jpg" alt="Mata Traders Garden Dress" width="210" height="300" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.ecolissa.com/Mata_Traders_Garden_Dress_p/1000-041.htm" target="_blank">This dress</a>, done up with delicately gathered sleeves, pleated waist, and a full, flirty skirt is perfect for a date night. It&#8217;s just asking to be paired with pearls, pumps, and red lips. Made of 100% cotton. ($68)</p>
<h1>Olsenhaus Bangkok Green</h1>
<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-103578" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/15/fabulous-vegan-fashions/vegan-shoes-olsenhaus/"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-103578" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/vegan-shoes-olsenhaus-300x300.jpg" alt="Vegan Heels OlsenHaus" width="300" height="300" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.olsenhaus.com/about" target="_blank">Elizabeth Olsen</a>, the founder of <a href="http://www.olsenhaus.com/" target="_blank">Olsenhaus Pure Vegan</a>, was on a mission to merge her passions for design, fashion, and function, as well as being a voice for animals, when she started her vegan shoe line. Her Bangkok Green toeless heel is a stylish, classic shoe made of 100% cruelty-free materials ($210).</p>
<h1>LivLuna Dress</h1>
<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-103582" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/15/fabulous-vegan-fashions/livluna-dress/"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-103582" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/livluna-dress-258x300.jpg" alt="LivLuna Open Sleeve Dress" width="258" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>LivLuna makes this scoop neck, open sleeve knit dress perfect for a cooler evening. The <a href="http://livluna.com/product-category/dresses/" target="_blank">Stevia Dress</a> is stunning and sexy, without looking like you&#8217;re trying too hard. ($99)</p>
<h1>Vivienne Westwood Derby Bag</h1>
<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-103588" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/15/fabulous-vegan-fashions/vivienne-westwood-derby-bag-2/"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-103588" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/vivienne-westwood-derby-bag1-257x300.jpg" alt="Vivienne Westwood Derby Bag" width="257" height="300" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.viviennewestwood.co.uk/shop/womens-accessories/womens-bags/derby-bag-5904-mac-bruce-15593/" target="_blank">This beautiful bag</a> is way out of our price range (it&#8217;s a measly $1040!!), but we love it for its funky design, Vivienne Westwood&#8217;s classic MacBruce Tartan fabric, and its instantly recognizable Yasmine shape finished with a delicate golden Orb. It has a one zip closing and one open pocket. If you can afford it, it&#8217;s a wardrobe staple. We&#8217;re mostly just glad something so fashionable is so animal-friendly.</p>
<h1>DKNY Asymmetrical Pleather Jacket</h1>
<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-103583" href="http://www.sheckys.com/2013/05/15/fabulous-vegan-fashions/dkny-asymmetrical-pleather-jacket/"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-103583" src="http://www.sheckys.com/files/2013/05/DKNY-asymmetrical-pleather-jacket-257x300.jpg" alt="DKNY Asymmetrical Pleather Jacket" width="257" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>The color of this soft and comfortable <a href="http://www.zappos.com/dkny-asymmetrical-pleather-jacket-casablanca?ef_id=UXBO7wAAABonjg2G:20130513154015:s" target="_blank">zip coat</a> is perfect for spring. The neutral color goes well with anything in your closet, and looks like real leather. ($90)</p>
<h3>For more chic finds in vegan fashion, check out these sites:</h3>
<p><a href="http://alternativeoutfitters.com" target="_blank">Alternative Outfitters</a></p>
<p><a href="http://ecolissa.com" target="_blank">Ecolissa</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.veganstore.com/" target="_blank">Pangea </a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.bboheme.com/index.php/" target="_blank">Bourgeois Boheme</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.okabashi.com/" target="_blank">Okabashi</a></p>
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