It happens. Some of us have kids with someone we can’t just make it work with. And sometimes, we enter relationships in which our partner has kids of his own. While some people may frown upon it or have general hesitations, some of us are willing to make it work. Here are some things to consider when dating a fella with kids. -Meryl Lumba 1. Know the Baggage We don’t mean to put it so bluntly, but if he has kids, know the situation you are putting yourself in. Does he have full custody of them? If he can only see them... CONTINUE READING 1
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Tattoos: Turn on or Turn off?
Many men mark their adulthood by doing something quite permanent: getting a tattoo. We all have those friends that scraped up what little money they had to get one. And today, we all probably have some obscure tribal or floral design hidden away, only revealing itself when a shirt is too short. While it may seem like a fun and exciting... CONTINUE READING 19
Beating the “L Word” Stalemate
No, we’re not talking about the popular Showtime series. Like Donna and Eric from That 70s Show, the “L word” is implied in our relationships, but still scary to actually talk about. While some of us fear the word love, the rest of us might wonder when it’ll crop up in our relationships. Will your significant... CONTINUE READING 5
I’m just going to jump right into this, because it's not that complicated. If you’re interested in a guy, ask him to coffee. Wondering whether or not you should wait for him to “move” on you turns dating into a game. Don’t think of dating as a game: it’s two people exploring their mutual compatibility. I’m not saying you should sleep... CONTINUE READING 20
5 TV Bad Boys We Hate to Love
Okay, so Charlie from Always Sunny is not really a bad boy. In fact, you could argue that the only “bad” thing about him is his inability to read (remember when he confused the word philanthropist with “full-time-rapist” on a blind-date?) and his terrible hygiene. And maybe the fact that he unknowingly stalks the waitress all the time. However, lots... CONTINUE READING 17
Weddings are expensive for the bride, groom and other family members, but costs can quickly add up for wedding guests, too! If you find yourself RSVPing to a few weddings this year, read on for a list of the most common expenses and how to combat them. -Andrea Woroch Wedding Gifts Use discount gift cards to buy the gift. GiftCardGranny.com sells gift... CONTINUE READING 19
So, you’re at the end of a romantic first date. The waiter takes away your desserts, allowing the two of you to stretch your hands across the table the way you’ve been itching to throughout the meal, entwining your fingers by the glow of the candlelight. Then, midway through your date’s adorable story, the harbinger of awkwardness places that thin, little... CONTINUE READING 61
We all know what it looks like when a guy is flirting. The anchorman smile, the lilt in his voice, and the slightly awkward -- though often endearing -- opening line are all signs he’s playing the game. But what if a woman wants to pick and choose who she wants to charm and seduce? Flirting and communication expert Rachel DeAlto,... CONTINUE READING 12
First, to clarify: steampunk began as a sub-genre of science fiction, but has evolved into an romantic, Victorian-esque aesthetic that appeals to Jules Verne readers and corset-lovers alike. As any Pinterest wedding enthusiast will attest, more people have decided the poofy skirts, sleek top hats, shiny goggles, and neat bow ties make for a beautiful escapist non-traditional wedding theme (for... CONTINUE READING 15
How To Find His Actual Comfort Levels on Sexuality
Do you remember Tila Tequila’s VH1 reality show, A Shot at Love? It was probably the first-ever of its kind, with the pin-up girl having 16 men and 16 women compete for her attention. Though controversial, I can’t say that it was a “step in the right direction” for the bi community. For years, “women-on-women” action... CONTINUE READING 12
How To Get Out of the Friend Zone and Start a Romance
Like Nick and Jess on New Girl, many of us have experienced the awkward teeter-tottering between friendship and relationship, often blurring the lines between being nice and being flirty. But what happens when said friend actually asks you out? We know that all friendships are fundamentally structured around trust and common interests, so how could dating... CONTINUE READING 7




















