Today's NO BOYS ALLOWED Guilty Pleasure

by Ayesha Richardson Bring on the new beginnings!  Whether its foreplay, date nights, teasing, shower sex, or oral sex these methods can prove vital to a lasting relationship. Foreplay Foreplay is the best way to get closer when you have your menstruation cycle.  A little extra touching and kissing can bring your relationship to a whole new level.  Of course, this time will allow you and your partner to connect on a non-sexual level. Dating Time Make this time the best time to go on as many dates as you like.  Going on dates and not having sex with your partner during your menstruation cycle allows the two of you to practice a more romantic side of... CONTINUE READING 9


Very Romantic Ways to Relax

Since September is “Pleasure Your Mate Month” and today is Labor Day, I’ve compiled a few ways to relax romantically with your guy—today, this month or any day at all. Chillin' out with your main squeeze starts right! -Cait Rohan There’s nothing more romantic than breakfast in bed or breakfast as dinner in bed after you’ve spent all day between the sheets.... CONTINUE READING 32

Fall's Hottest TV Hunks

Fall is nearly here, and with it comes some fab new TV shows (finally!). And, there's no better way to revive your colder-weather couch-potato habits than with some seriously hunky eye candy. Forget your summer fling (er, what's his name again?) and start pining away for these TV hotties! -Amanda Mactas Michael Mosley We don't know what ABC's Pan Am has in store yet... CONTINUE READING 13

“He’s Freaked Out by the Number of People I’ve Slept With”

Question: "So, it randomly came up with my guy about how many people we’d both slept with, and I was completely honest. I haven’t slept with a lot of people (around 10), but his number is half of mine. I feel like it REALLY bothers him. I’ve tried talking to him, telling him that was all in the past, etc., but he just... CONTINUE READING 24

A Wing Girl for Guys

Let’s face it, ladies—we are extremely charming, beautiful and intelligent, so it should come as no surprise that a lot of men are too intimidated to approach the women they’re interested in. Enter Marni Kinrys, founder of The Wing Girl Method. Marni doesn’t feed guys pick-up lines, she gives them advice about how we think and what we really want.... CONTINUE READING 12

Would You Go for a “Short” Guy?

It’s basic instinct—the guy is supposed to be taller than the girl, right? But what’s a statuesque sistah (and a short stud) to do? Find out why one of Shecky’s Staffers always wears high heels, no matter what height her boyfriend or date may be. “I’m your average-sized woman: 5 feet 6 inches, maybe one inch taller if you want to... CONTINUE READING 39

I’m a Girl…and I Like Video Games

Today, we're celebrating our Always-Logged-On Girlfriends (have you voted in our National Girlfriend Awards yet?), so imagine our surprise when we heard that one of our very own Shecky's Staffers was games. And this Staffer is a girl (we already knew about the obsession guys have with gaming, duh!). Read her story, and tell us if you're a gamer... CONTINUE READING 32

How to Avoid Honeymoon Wreckers

Summertime is wedding season, which also means it's a hot time for honeymoons, too. But, even if you are the most organized bride-to-be ever, all that wedding planning can distract you from mapping out the h-moon. Which is basically a recipe for post-I-do disaster. That's why every busy soon-to-be bride should read’s tips for avoiding honeymoon wreckers. At the top... CONTINUE READING 17

5 Famous Fellas We Want As Friends

It may be the month to celebrate the National Girlfriend Awards (have you voted for the winners yet?), but we’re neglecting one huge thing here—our guy friends (aww!). In honor of our Boy-Crazy Girlfriends and lest the studs in our lives feel shorted, here are five famous fellas I wish I could call my BGFs (best guy friends!). -Cait Rohan The Musician:... CONTINUE READING 41

“What’s Up with His Porn?”

Question: (Sent via our form): What’s up with the porn stash? My guy says he likes me as real as I am, but then he has porn videos of all these super-skinny, fake-boobed women. Why? ANSWERS: Mr. Young and in Love SEE BIO NOW> Why does your guy look at porn? Because he's a guy! We all do it, and any woman who says their man... CONTINUE READING 22

A Woman Who’s Empowering Divorcees

Going through a divorce or called it quits on your marriage a while back? You may think anyone who says there's a light at the end of the tunnel is a little crazy, but when Post-Divorce Coach Lee Block tells you to have hope, we'd believe her. Why? Not only has Lee been there and survived, she's launched a thriving... CONTINUE READING 9