Today's NO BOYS ALLOWED Guilty Pleasure

By Roselyn Sebastian Sleeping with your boss is one of the ultimate temptations, but can also end in disaster if you indulge. Is there a way to jump into bed and actually advance your career without ruining your personal life? We understand that not at all affairs are created equal, things happen. But if you can take a breath and think on it, consider the following things. Will It Advance Your Career? There’s nothing worse than getting passed over for a promotion. But the solution to that problem is usually not getting between the sheets. If you do decide that’s what you’re going... CONTINUE READING 0


Would You Go for a “Short” Guy?

It’s basic instinct—the guy is supposed to be taller than the girl, right? But what’s a statuesque sistah (and a short stud) to do? Find out why one of Shecky’s Staffers always wears high heels, no matter what height her boyfriend or date may be. “I’m your average-sized woman: 5 feet 6 inches, maybe one inch taller if you want to... CONTINUE READING 39

I’m a Girl…and I Like Video Games

Today, we're celebrating our Always-Logged-On Girlfriends (have you voted in our National Girlfriend Awards yet?), so imagine our surprise when we heard that one of our very own Shecky's Staffers was games. And this Staffer is a girl (we already knew about the obsession guys have with gaming, duh!). Read her story, and tell us if you're a gamer... CONTINUE READING 32

How to Avoid Honeymoon Wreckers

Summertime is wedding season, which also means it's a hot time for honeymoons, too. But, even if you are the most organized bride-to-be ever, all that wedding planning can distract you from mapping out the h-moon. Which is basically a recipe for post-I-do disaster. That's why every busy soon-to-be bride should read’s tips for avoiding honeymoon wreckers. At the top... CONTINUE READING 17

5 Famous Fellas We Want As Friends

It may be the month to celebrate the National Girlfriend Awards (have you voted for the winners yet?), but we’re neglecting one huge thing here—our guy friends (aww!). In honor of our Boy-Crazy Girlfriends and lest the studs in our lives feel shorted, here are five famous fellas I wish I could call my BGFs (best guy friends!). -Cait Rohan The Musician:... CONTINUE READING 41

“What’s Up with His Porn?”

Question: (Sent via our form): What’s up with the porn stash? My guy says he likes me as real as I am, but then he has porn videos of all these super-skinny, fake-boobed women. Why? ANSWERS: Mr. Young and in Love SEE BIO NOW> Why does your guy look at porn? Because he's a guy! We all do it, and any woman who says their man... CONTINUE READING 22

A Woman Who’s Empowering Divorcees

Going through a divorce or called it quits on your marriage a while back? You may think anyone who says there's a light at the end of the tunnel is a little crazy, but when Post-Divorce Coach Lee Block tells you to have hope, we'd believe her. Why? Not only has Lee been there and survived, she's launched a thriving... CONTINUE READING 9

He's Got a Different Vacation Agenda Than I Do

Ladies, I’ve already let you in on why I think vacationing is a relationship maker or breaker. But, as I’ve just so recently realized, deciding where to stay is way different with a guy than it is when traveling with friends. This harsh reality was brought up when my boyfriend suggested that we stay in a hostel room with other people.... CONTINUE READING 56

Girlie Stuff We Couldn't Have Gotten Through Without Guys

We know August is all about the celebration of girls and friends in honor of our National Girlfriend Awards, so we'd like to confess to some really chicky stuff that we've done in our lives. And while we are independent, strong women, there are some things that we just couldn't have done without (gulp...) guys. So, even though we're a... CONTINUE READING 35

MyRegistry Makes Registries Personalized & Fun

For most brides, the words "wedding registry" may conjure up images of dragging their grooms through a department store searching for the perfect china pattern. But that's just what Nancy Lee, President of, has set out to conquer! Shecky’s spoke with Nancy about her innovative registry site, which provides couples with the ability to register at any and all... CONTINUE READING 20

Lessons Learned from a Break-Up

Our exes (and ex-relationships) are our greatest teachers. They provide us with the most important lessons when it comes to love. It’s up to us to learn these lessons once and for all so we don’t have to repeat them time and time again. We feel break-ups are a time where we not only learn the lessons that are provided... CONTINUE READING 31