Today's Men...WTF? Guilty Pleasure
10 Ways to Pick Up A Guy At The Bar

It's pretty much expected that when us gals go out to a bar, it's the guy's job to make the first move. But why not skip all the anxiety of waiting around and make that first move yourself? Sometimes guys are just shy and don't know how to approach a lady and, let's face it, most of the cocky guys that hit on girls in bars are not the type of guys we want to meet anyway. I've got ten great tips to picking up that hot guy at the bar and trust me, they actually work! You'll feel empowered... CONTINUE READING 10

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092810_bromance

Our Shecky’s Staffer has run into another dude dilemma—getting along with her man’s friends. See her snafu and help her decide how to handle it. “I like to think that I’m an approachable, friendly female. I’m also a bit of a guy’s girl as evidenced by my many male friends and my genuine love of sports, immature comedy, eating cheese and... CONTINUE READING 35

092810_guy-bloopers

A while back, user Samantha asked for a place where readers could submit their own hilarious guy bloopers. Yep, we know you've heard us talk about our boyfriends making us fat, relationships without any zing, getting that number...but we know you've got men mishaps, bloopers and dilemmas (we've already seen samples in your comments!). So, Samantha, here it is! Your chance,... CONTINUE READING 13

092310_video-game-obsession

Let’s contemplate something juvenile inside every guy: their love of video games. One Shecky’s Staffer shares her experience with gamers (World of Warcraft made her dump one dude) and surveyed other Staffers for their opinions. See how video games helped a foreigner navigate New York City, caused a couple to fall in love and get married, and are an essential... CONTINUE READING 42

091610_mancaves

Here in this newfangled age of 2010, lots of couples live together, even before they tie the knot. But married or not, it seems like when men live with women they need their own dedicated space—the mancave. One Staffer remarks on this phenomenon, thinks about why, and shares some attributes that the common mancave must have. “When my friends started moving... CONTINUE READING 51

090810_WeirdClothesGuysLove

Yes, there are a ton of guys at the head of major fashion labels: Michael, Marc, Karl, the list is endless. With the start of Mercedes-Benz Fashion Week in New York, one Shecky's Staffer got to thinking about what your average, everyday guy thinks about when it comes to fashion. Some women say they date guys with a snazzy sense... CONTINUE READING 41

090210_OurNewGuyPanel

Happy September! To celebrate all the things we love about our new No Boys Allowed section, we’re starting up an Ask a Guy section this month. Yep, here’s your chance to ask a panel of men all of your burning questions: sex advice, how to really get him to listen, the best way to meet a significant other, if he's... CONTINUE READING 21

083110_why-im-against-dating-websites

We know. It’s 2010, and some large percentage of people “meet” online. Still, one Staffer sees some drawbacks to the system. Is online dating taking the romance out of that whole chance meeting, the surprising unveiling of a person that used to be so sacred? Is it another way that  is ? “Okay, before several hundred of you put me on... CONTINUE READING 29

082710_DrunkTexting_home

Ah, those good olden days of drunk dialing. Remember when cell phones were first introduced and calling ex-lovers or men you just met and accidentally-on-purpose confessing your undying love was the only problem you had? We’ve talked about , but what does all that easy-access to Facebook, texting, instant messaging, Gchats do to us when we’re inebriated? We know it’s Monday... CONTINUE READING 24

082610_getting-his-sex-number

This isn’t some 1995 advice column about getting a guy’s phone number. We know it’s 2010 and you’ve taken some numbers…and then some. But the “and then some” part is exactly what’s troubling us. Do you ever discuss that other number, the amount of people you’ve had sex with, with your guy? One Staffer got this major shocker…and now she’s not... CONTINUE READING 53

082510_cheating-other-woman

Why does it seem like women who’ve been cheated on are always pointing fingers at the other female involved and not their unfaithful fellas? One Staffer has unfortunately been  (unbeknownst to her!) and was surprised when an angry chick confronted her. Here’s her story. “After a long night, I usually like a good snack, and by snack I might mean cheese... CONTINUE READING 28