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I was riding the subway recently, and a creepy guy was staring at my cleavage. Then, I felt him do elevator eyes over my legs, my butt and back up to the boobs. Ew. How is it fair that guys can instantly judge our bodies with all of our, er, womanly parts, but we can see nothing of their important... CONTINUE READING 30

QUESTION: Sent via our form: I'm a really easy-going person, BUT I feel like it works against me in relationships—for example, I let him pick the date spots, I'll wait till he makes the first move.... Do guys prefer this type of girl or are they more into bossy women? Is there some such thing as the “perfect” balance? ANSWERS: Mr. Sensitive and Scientific SEE... CONTINUE READING 24

Aside from making me hungry and thirsty, all this talk about Memorial Day barbecues makes me think about getting burned in another way—getting dumped. When examining my relationship past, it seems that I more often than not play the dumpee and not the dumper, and many of the tactics used were so shockingly...stupid. Below, please review some of the break-up... CONTINUE READING 15

Cheating is the topic on the tip of everyone’s tongues today (what’s up, Arnold?). But, what happens when you’re the other woman…and you don’t even know it? Yep, turns out you can be a homewrecker without being a malicious maneater. One Staffer shares how she unknowingly became part of a cheating scandal. “I had been seeing this guy for a... CONTINUE READING 24

QUESTION: Sent via our form: "What do you say to a man when he says I love you.... But you're not ready to say it back  / don't want to say it yet?" ANSWERS: Mr. In a Relationship SEE BIO NOW> I would imagine this would make for an awkward moment. General concept—never tell someone you love them unless you really mean it (or you are never... CONTINUE READING 19

In modern dating times, I have noticed an emerging trend—“the break,” a sort of relationship purgatory. There are many reasons why a couple enters this wishy-washy covenant. They may think it’s over but be too chicken/scared/whatever to admit it. Perhaps one party wants to put the other “on hold” for a time that is more convenient—and in the meanwhile use... CONTINUE READING 73

You've already met Hilary Winston on Sheckys.com (don't forget to ask her any guy-related questions), and if you went to Girls Night Out Los Angeles, you probably met her in person. Not in the L.A. area? Catch Hilary's hilarious tales in her book, My Boyfriend Wrote a Book About Me! Read an excerpt from the book right now: Luckily, my first... CONTINUE READING 11

Have you ever had an annoying social media-related guy experience? I just had my first on Twitter. A few weeks ago, I was at home on a Saturday night annoyed that the only thing I could find to watch on TV were shows about single women getting murdered. As a single woman who lives by herself and is at home... CONTINUE READING 15

QUESTION: Sent via our form: "I understand that women are beautiful creatures, but why the exaggerated stares and ignorant comments to express yourselves?" ANSWERS: Mr. Sensitive and Scientific SEE BIO NOW> I've had a few beautiful female friends who radically changed their appearance (ex. cut their hair super short), and found that when they received fewer catcalls their self-esteem actually suffered. The attention you're... CONTINUE READING 12

Men and sports form an obvious relationship, something that we’ve touched upon before, sure. But I never realized just how serious it was until playoff season. My boyfriend is an extreme hockey fan; "his" team: the New York Rangers. In everyday life he is a friendly, extraordinarily nice guy, but, as I’ve recently found out, when it comes to the Stanley... CONTINUE READING 25