Loneliness should never have to be equated with not being in a relationship - there's plenty of loneliness inside of relationships, and the cure is not to go out and just find a boyfriend. Being alone can actually be a wonderful experience -positive and rewarding, even if it's not always easy to think of it that way. Here's a list of tried-and-true methods of curing loneliness, without going out and nabbing the first dude who comes along. 1. Find out what you like to do Sign up for a yoga class. Learn a new language. Come home after work and cook the... CONTINUE READING 0
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He’s Got a Different Vacation Agenda Than I Do
Ladies, I’ve already let you in on why I think vacationing is a relationship maker or breaker. But, as I’ve just so recently realized, deciding where to stay is way different with a guy than it is when traveling with friends. This harsh reality was brought up when my boyfriend suggested that we stay in a hostel room with other people.... CONTINUE READING 56
“Why Does He Worry About My Guy Friends?”
Question: (Sent via our form): Why do guys worry so much when their girlfriends/wives have male friends? ANSWERS: Mr. Loves Boys Too SEE BIO NOW> They worry for the same reasons you worry when they have female friends. Of course, my partner and I have all the female friends we want…there is no danger there. We also each have a bunch of male friends…the straight... CONTINUE READING 23
Guys & Awkward Animal Obsessions
While guys who like animals may sound really adorable (we may or may not have once had a men with cute animals calendar here at Shecky's...), guys obsessed with animals somehow goes from cute to creepy...real fast. Hear some of our Staffers' stories about guys in their lives who are a little bit too into animals. “I'm majorly obsessed with dogs... CONTINUE READING 43
“How Do You Know if She’s ‘The One’?”
QUESTION: Sent via our form: “All right, guys! How do you REALLY know she’s the one you’re going to marry?” ANSWERS: Mr. Noncommittal SEE BIO NOW> You'll actually never know. Why? Because marriage isn't the answer, especially nowadays. In the olden days, men would marry women because there was that whole "no sex until marriage" thing. Today, there are lots of ladies who put out... CONTINUE READING 35
Why Are Guys So Obsessed with Threesomes?
QUESTION: Sent via our form: Why are guys so obsessed with threesomes? My man always talks about two-girls, one-guy action and all of my girlfriends say their significant others do too. Why?! ANSWERS: Mr. Loverboy Rocker SEE BIO NOW> How could the thought of two gorgeous women selflessly giving themselves to me not be appealing? This situation is so coveted since it picks at the foundation of how... CONTINUE READING 51
Manscaping: Yay or Nay?
A recent Cosmo article discussed the popular male trend of manscaping. That is, a man grooming his...hair-eas (ex.: backs, chests, butts and the lower frontal regions). Yep, a recent poll conducted by Cosmo in conjunction with askmen.com revealed that 95% of men admitted to manscaping! The article goes on to say that in an age of ever-evolving acceptance and the introduction... CONTINUE READING 77
Being Friends (and Neighbors?!) with an Ex
It isn't very often that you hear of exes becoming close friends, either by choice or by chance, but such is the case for Michelle Valladares and Jose Araujo who were once married, split up and are now neighbors. What's more? Valladares lives with her second husband, also now a friend to Araujo. In an excerpt from O, The Oprah... CONTINUE READING 42
Do You Let Your Guy Go to Strip Clubs?
It’s the question every girl has an opinion on: Would you ever let your guy go to a strip club? I know many women who consider this a deal-breaker, some who think it’s a guy thing and look the other way, and others who have certain specifications. While watching scantily-clad women dance around a stage isn’t something I really want... CONTINUE READING 171
Lessons Learned from Sex Scandals
What's up with all the sex scandals recently? And why does each one seem to be more shocking and crazier than the last? TheFrisky.com compiled a list of the lessons they have learned from the recent sex scandals (special thanks to Tiger Woods, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Jesse James, Anthony Weiner and many, many more). From inappropriate (and unappealing) photos to a line-up... CONTINUE READING 17
How Do I Tell Him I Have an STD?
QUESTION: Sent via our form: I have an STD…and it’s not going anywhere. I’m dating a new guy and I really like him. We’ve only made out so far, but it’s been a few weeks and I’d like to get intimate with him. How do I tell him without scaring him off? ANSWERS: Mr. Young and in Love SEE BIO NOW> Well, this is certainly an awkward... CONTINUE READING 20




















