It's pretty much expected that when us gals go out to a bar, it's the guy's job to make the first move. But why not skip all the anxiety of waiting around and make that first move yourself? Sometimes guys are just shy and don't know how to approach a lady and, let's face it, most of the cocky guys that hit on girls in bars are not the type of guys we want to meet anyway. I've got ten great tips to picking up that hot guy at the bar and trust me, they actually work! You'll feel empowered... CONTINUE READING 10
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Second Chance Romance
Ever had a case of the couple comeback? As in, just when you thought things were over between an ex-flame and yourself forever, he's back to beg for you? Are redo relationships a go or a no-no? One Shecky’s Staffer weighs in on two redos—one ex who should've stayed (far,far!) away and one romance that got better with a double-take. “I... CONTINUE READING 3
Pants on the Ground
What’s worse than getting caught in the act by your parents? Try getting caught with your pants down by the cops. One of our Shecky’s Staffers fesses up (anonymously, of course) to this embarrassing scenario. Read on for an afternoon pick-me-up! “My at the time and I both lived at home, which meant getting it on wasn’t as frequent... CONTINUE READING 1
Convince Your Guy to Cook!
Your man may be the bread-winner in your , but why are you always rolling out the dough (literally)? He might be a grill-master, but making food inside every once and a while would be nice. We’ve plotted a few sneaky tricks, er, encouraging ways to convince him to cook. If you have a hardcore on your hands, get him... CONTINUE READING 3
Mama’s (Home) Boy
Yeah, we love our , but what about the men who take it to a whole different level? Yep, we're talking about grown-up guys (er, boys?) who live with their moms…and don't want to leave. The whole “child at heart” thing is kinda sexy…till he takes the whole Peter Pan and the Lost Boys act way too seriously. Here’s... CONTINUE READING 1
Love Nesting: From She to We
It’s the question all little girls dream of: How will he ask? Where will you marry? How will your children look and, most importantly, how will you give up your ballerina pink walls, faux fur bedspread and gardenia-scented sheets? Former solo-dweller here, writing from atop a bed covered in boxes and a gender-unspecific duvet. About a month after saying a prompt... CONTINUE READING 1
Chicks Who Dig Sports
We obviously love a hot pair of , and . Well, we’ve got a secret—sometimes we really like sports. Sure, we could never match the guy-obsessed level (fanatical fantasy league following, dedicating hours to looking up stats on sites…), but boys beware—there are girls out there who actually like sports. It’s especially awesome now that the weather’s warmer and... CONTINUE READING 0
What is Love? Dropping the L-Bomb
I. Love. You.—we hate to go all sappy on ya, but those three little words mean so much. Sometimes it’s awesome and perfect when someone says the l-word, sometimes we’re not too sure we heard it, sometimes we wait waaaaay too long to hear it and every once in a while it escapes when we didn’t really mean it at... CONTINUE READING 0
Dudley Deal Breakers
Some dudes just don’t get it when it comes to dating. Completely oblivious to girl’s needs and even more so when it comes to manners (uh...could you chew with your mouth closed and hold the door open, please?). One of our , who goes by old-school rules, got to experience this first hand. “I met this guy at a bar,... CONTINUE READING 1
“I Can’t Believe I Dated Him”
We already gave you the scoop on who make our blood boil. On the flipside, there are those former fellas who we can't help but giggle (or crack up) about in a dizzying montage of "What was I thinking?" moments. It's OK...love is blind...er, it makes some people completely crazy. Contributor Susan Buchanan weighs in on one of her laughable ex-lovers. "We... CONTINUE READING 5
Man Hair, WTF?
Guys are weird. Whether they’re 14 or 42, there’s still some stuff girlkind will never, ever understand. From their never-ending obsession with sports to the fine art of a bromance, boys are a baffling breed. One confused Shecky’s staffer shares her ongoing battle with guy hair. “I’m definitely not into metrosexual guys. I love manly, rugged men who are often completely... CONTINUE READING 2















