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Real Sex

Imagine, once upon a time guys were cautious about buying porn. It was way too embarrassing for most. But now porn’s mainstream, and it has, for a long time, been teaching men - and us - about what sex "should" be like - the way it should look, the way it should sound, the way it should begin and end, and how quickly. Here's what sex in the real world is like: some women like it when guys come on their face, others don’t. Some women like anal sex, others don’t care for it. Some partners... CONTINUE READING 4

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Ugly Hot

Attractiveness is subjective, right? Sure. Which explains why greasy hair, huge ears, and buck teeth are all so appealing when it comes to some actors. Here are six dudes whose hotness fazes us. Read on and see if you agree with our choices. Who's missing from the "uglyhot" category? 1. John Heder You know him as Napoleon Dynamite. In real life, he's... CONTINUE READING 10

Sitcom Actors

There’s no quicker way to realize how old we really are than coming across celebrity gossip. At first glance, we feel bad for them-- and then it dawns on us: we haven’t heard anything about that celeb in ages. Let’s reminisce and have a throwback: here’s a list of 7 actors we miss seeing on TV. Who else are we... CONTINUE READING 8

Manorexia

As a woman who has successfully recovered from an eating disorder, the fact that nearly 30 million Americans still suffer from issues of food and body image saddens and disheartens me.  It has always been something the women around me have struggled with, so imagine my surprise when I recently learned that actually a third of those suffering... CONTINUE READING 3

My Boyfriend Watches Porn

I have a confession to make - or rather, I have someone else’s confession to make: My boyfriend watches porn. Honestly, I didn’t really care when I first found out. Other guys I’d dated had watched porn, so I wrote it off as something men do that I’ll never understand. It was only when I really started to think about it... CONTINUE READING 7

Faithful but flirty

Sometimes flirting is healthy. Knowing that we've "still got it" can be a nice ego-boost, but drawing the line between flirty and cheating is important. There's a difference between giggling at someone's joke a little too hard and explicitly telling someone how good he or she looks with a pair of "get at me" eyes.  We've all played these games.... CONTINUE READING 4

5 Things You Should be Doing

Moving in with your partner is really fun and exciting, and can even instill feelings of that nervous, honeymoon stage. Whether you’re already married or not, living together brings with it some unforeseen challenges. Even the most pleasant of couples can grow to resent the other over a simple matter of space. Here’s a few... CONTINUE READING 12

Good Guy Traits That Secretly Annoy Us

They treat us right. Maybe they’ve been here all along, and maybe we’ve been looking for them forever. After years of dating, it’s a great feeling to settle down with a good guy. But sometimes, being with that good guy can have awkward perks that, over time, can eventually annoy us. Here’s our very short list (because at the end... CONTINUE READING 4

Meeting his Parents

So, he's met your folks a million times. Now it's your turn. Are you nervous? Don't worry, you're amazing. They'll love you. As long as you double check this list. - Victoria Barton 1. Before You Meet Them Before you get around to meeting your potential in-laws, ask your boyfriend about his parents if you haven’t already. Get... CONTINUE READING 3

Dating in College & Beyond

Dating continues to be one of the most mystifying experiences of our lives. How can we know if he's interested for the long-haul, or just for the fling? How can we know why a guy who seems to like us suddenly stops calling? Who the hell knows what's on his mind? A new Shecky's writer, Maliha Talib, decided to go... CONTINUE READING 9

How to Cure Loneliness

Loneliness should never have to be equated with not being in a relationship - there's plenty of loneliness inside of relationships, and the cure is not to go out and just find a boyfriend. Being alone can actually be a wonderful experience -positive and rewarding, even if it's not always easy to think of it that way. Here's a list... CONTINUE READING 2