QUESTION: "I'm going home for the holidays and I HAVE to see my ex-boyfriend (we have mutual friends). We have unfinished business and broke up less than a year ago, so I'm afraid of saying or doing something stupid (...like hooking up with him!). I know, I know. The easy answer here is 'Don't drink,' but let's be real. I'm going to enjoy myself and have a couple of cocktails. How do I keep myself from making a dumb mistake?!" ANSWERS: Mr. Loverboy Rocker SEE BIO NOW> If anything, this seems like a perfect opportunity to have some fun over the holidays, then leave and get... CONTINUE READING 7
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“I Had an Awkward Holiday Hook-Up”
Men...WTF?
November 17, 2011
There’s something about being home for the holidays that is kind of like taking mind-altering drugs. You stuff yourself without about 10,000 calories worth of turkey, but are still hungry enough to sneak thirds from the fridge for a midnight snack. Or, perhaps you find yourself playing pirates in a game with your baby cousin…and being way too in it. And... CONTINUE READING 13
What Makes a Guy Go Back to an Ex?
Men...WTF?
November 10, 2011
QUESTION: Look at Prince William and Kate. What makes a guy go back a second time and, in their case, even get married? ANSWERS: Mr. Noncommittal SEE BIO NOW> The sex…. If the sex was good, it’s hard to stay away. Sometimes after a bit of time away you realize that you had a little more in common than good sex, too. But sometimes you... CONTINUE READING 12
“Spill it, Guys: What Was Your Worst Break-Up Excuse?”
Men...WTF?
October 27, 2011
QUESTION: "Guys: What's the most crazy-stupid excuse you've ever used to break up with someone? (And why did you use it?!)" ANSWERS: Mr. Young and in Love SEE BIO NOW> Umm, from what I read on Sheckys.com, it's you ladies that use the crazy-stupid excuses to break up with us! Unfortunately (although I guess fortunately, really), you can count the amount of break-ups I've had on... CONTINUE READING 15
Steve Ward from VH1 Tough Love is giving us the scoop on relationships and men, and telling us if we should "date or ditch" our dudes. What is the ultimate sign that a relationship is doomed? A. When you start talking about your problems in public…when you start airing your dirty laundry and people can smell it, you will clear a room out. Want to know if you should "Date or... CONTINUE READING 4
Pick-Up Lines: What’s Cheesy, Sleazy and Actually Cute
Men...WTF?
October 20, 2011
Getting picked up happens to every woman. You could be single, blatantly out with your boyfriend or have a wedding ring glittering on your finger—guys have no shame. Our Shecky's Staffers (kept anonymous to protect innocent victims) weighed in on some of the best (er, worst?) one-liners they've ever heard. Plus, we've added snappy comebacks that'll surprise your wannabe suitors... CONTINUE READING 18
Steve Ward from VH1 Tough Love is giving us the scoop on relationships and men, and telling us if we should "date or ditch" our dudes. WHY DO MEN CHEAT?! A. I think men cheat because they aren’t completely satisfied in their relationship and they are in need of some sort of stimulation. Most of the time they are looking for something else that someone can give them. What is the best way to... CONTINUE READING 9
“I Slept with my Guy Friend. Could it Work Out?”
Men...WTF?
October 13, 2011
QUESTION: “I have this friend (not close best friend, but friend) that I ended up sleeping with. BUT, I really like him. Maybe more so than he likes me. Do I still have a shot with him? Or did I ruin it forever?” ANSWERS: Mr. Loves Boys Too SEE BIO NOW> So, you gave the milk away for free and now you’re trying to sell... CONTINUE READING 14
Steve Ward from VH1 Tough Love is giving us the scoop on relationships and men, and telling us if we should "date or ditch" our dudes. Do men prefer take-charge women, or easy-going girls? A. It really depends on the guy…usually a take-charge guy is going to like a take-charge woman and same with easy-going. But, if you are REALLY extreme take-charge or easy-going…you will likely go with the opposite. Is it really... CONTINUE READING 7
Steve Ward from VH1 Tough Love is giving us the scoop on relationships and men, and telling us if we should "date or ditch" our dudes. We have to know—what’s with guys’ obsessions with threesomes, porn and all-out crazy fantasies? A. Most people want what they can’t have. When it comes to threesomes, it’s really about setting an unrealistic goal and feeling a sense of accomplishment when you achieve it. It’s about... CONTINUE READING 4
Steve Ward from VH1 Tough Love is giving us the scoop on relationships and men, and telling us if we should "date or ditch" our dudes. Q. Why do men care about the number of guys women have slept with? AND do they care because they care for us or care to beat our numbers? A. "Most men don’t care about the number... CONTINUE READING 8
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