Today's Love & Sex Guilty Pleasure
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by Ayesha Richardson Bring on the new beginnings!  Whether its foreplay, date nights, teasing, shower sex, or oral sex these methods can prove vital to a lasting relationship. Foreplay Foreplay is the best way to get closer when you have your menstruation cycle.  A little extra touching and kissing can bring your relationship to a whole new level.  Of course, this time will allow you and your partner to connect on a non-sexual level. Dating Time Make this time the best time to go on as many dates as you like.  Going on dates and not having sex with your partner during your menstruation cycle allows the two of you to practice a more romantic side of... CONTINUE READING 5

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help-third-wheel

Though the road to being a third wheel varies with every tale, the result is still the same; watching two people you call your friends going at each other’s faces like one is starving and the other is an all you can eat buffet when all you wanted to do was see the new Sandra Bullock flick! We get it, it’s... CONTINUE READING 7

long-distance

by Dominique Fernandez Long. Distance. Relationships. Agh, never doing that again…. And as for those who have never been in such a relationship, I think it’s safe to assume that you haven’t heard the greatest of things. Hold on just a moment, though! Most people don’t believe in doing long distance, but there are successful long distance relationships. However, just like any... CONTINUE READING 10

what-to-say-to-a-friend

It's hard to know exactly what to do or say to your girlfriend when she’s going through the most universally painful experience in life. However, it is possible to make her feel better without saying the wrong thing. We consulted with each other here at Shecky's to come up with the best list of tried-and-true comforting methods for your girl... CONTINUE READING 10

how-to-date-coworker-feat

by Meryl Lumba Whether we’re working in a large corporation or a tiny non-profit, office dating happens. We all have that flirty co-worker– or the co-worker that is inadvertently leading someone on– or a co-worker that tries way too hard to be the “hot one” at the office. And we can all ask why anyone would want to mix their personal... CONTINUE READING 22

balance-one-sided-relationship

Every relationship reaches a point in which a partner needs support. And we would do anything for our partners. However, we can all agree that there’s a huge difference between being one’s support system and being one’s therapist. If your relationship is starting to feel a little one-sided, here are a few ways to level out: Tell him you’re a team This... CONTINUE READING 5

polyamory

While many turn away from the notion of “sharing” their partner, others embrace love with open arms. Polyamory has gotten a bad reputation– namely through popular television series that depict polyamorous couples as promiscuous, selfish sex addicts that are afraid of commitment. We’re here to break that stereotype. The Claim Here’s the question on everyone’s minds: is maintaining a polyamorous relationship possible? And... CONTINUE READING 13

spender-or-saver

Money, while it cannot buy you love, can help you be miserable in comfort. But when it comes to our romantic partner, we'd prefer to believe that money does, in fact, buy us love AND comfort, and as for that whole misery part, well, can we just leave that out? In love, while we're loathe to think about it, many of... CONTINUE READING 10

your-first-real-boyfriend

Most of my friends are  married to their first “real” boyfriends. I know exactly how this happens. You meet someone you like in your 20s. You slowly get comfortable, move in together, develop a routine, and before you know it you’ve been together 5, 6, 7 years, at which point it seems easier to just get married than try to... CONTINUE READING 31

5-first-date-questions

It's your first date. You're sitting at the restaurant, face to face with the new guy, and there's a moment when neither of you are speaking. You're nervous, you want to ask any question under the moon just to get conversation going, but you don't want him to think you're awkward or weird or self-centered. Oh screw it, you attempt... CONTINUE READING 8

more-sex-more-money

Time is money, health is better than wealth, and now, the new saying goes, “just have more sex." According to a recent study published by the German Institute for the Study of Labor, people who romp in the sack four or more times per week out-earn their less sexually active co-workers by 5 percent. The connection between wampum and whoopie seems pretty... CONTINUE READING 18