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The area of money in relationships is a good place to learn about the role feelings play in our lives. Kathlyn and I have had literally thousands of conversations about money, due to the fact that more people come in for coaching about money in their relationships than for sex, parenting or other big issues. In the early days of our... CONTINUE READING 8

For those who haven't heard, Maria Shriver and Arnold Schwarzenegger have split, and post-announcement it was revealed that Arnold fathered a child with a housekeeper 10 years ago. The reactions are plentiful, many full of anger and resentment as one might expect when any Hollywood scandal comes out. Unfortunately, Maria and Arnold aren't the first couple to deal with a scandal, and... CONTINUE READING 13

I think it’s pretty clear that if a guy is only texting you late night, and never answers any of your other inquiries before 11pm, he’s only looking for one thing…and it’s not an "In a Relationship" Facebook status. Enter, my best friend. She’s gorgeous, funny, smart, has a great bod...but why hasn’t she had a boyfriend in years, you... CONTINUE READING 6

My friends are getting married. As if the whole watching-people-I’ve-eaten-Playdough-with-walk-down-the-aisle thing wasn’t scary enough, it’s also accompanied by all that other hoopla. The dress fittings. The engagement parties. The bridal showers. …The bachelorette parties. But if there’s one thing I’ve noticed thus far with the last, it’s that the husband-to-be’s bach party does not equal that of his soon-to-be-wife’s. Why? Scenario... CONTINUE READING 42

For me, the most difficult part of any new relationship is the first 5%. ESPECIALLY when it comes to dating. It’s just awkward. You know what I’m talking about. Questions like this: “Should I text them? Should I call them? How long is too long? How soon is too soon? What do I say? They didn’t get back to me as quickly... CONTINUE READING 6

Earth Month may be over, but that doesn't mean you should stop being eco-friendly. When GirlieGirl Army proposed a few different ways to have greener sex, we just had to share. See below and let us know what you think! 1. Surprise your partner with an environmentally-friendly intimate gift. Look for rechargeable sexual well-being products that are made of body-safe... CONTINUE READING 10

In the earliest stages of a bad break-up, before the put-yourself-out-there-and-date-any-weirdo phase, chances are that you just want to sit indoors and bawl your eyes out. But when the self-pitying stuff gets a bit too draining, you want to sit in your bed (with five-days unwashed hair, in your holey granny undies and a stained tee-shirt, Ben and Jerry's pint... CONTINUE READING 14

There are some duos that undoubtedly go together. Spaghetti and meatballs. Peanut butter and jelly. Kristin Cavallari and Jay Cutler? Yep, according to the former The Hills "star," her and Cutler (pictured left) knew immediately that they would spend their lives together. Cavallari even goes so far as to say that she will move to Chicago for Cutler who is... CONTINUE READING 5

Mother’s Day has me thinking about how my mom has reacted to some of my relationships. Bringing a guy home to meet mom is never easy, but lucky for me she loves my current boyfriend…and lucky for me I love him too. But that wasn’t always the case. A while back, I dated a guy who was really good to me.... CONTINUE READING 12

You've already met Hilary Winston on Sheckys.com (don't forget to ask her any guy-related questions), but if you're going to Girls Night Out Los Angeles, you can meet her in person on May 4 and 5. Not in the L.A. area? Hilary's book, My Boyfriend Wrote a Book About Me, is out today! PLUS, read an excerpt from the book... CONTINUE READING 10