Today's Love & Sex Guilty Pleasure

By Roselyn Sebastian Whether you jet off to a beach house or you hoard your vacation days, when we’re on vacation we can let our hair down. No conference calls or emails that demand our immediate attention, no suits or slacks (hello cute sundresses!) In a word: freedom. The temptation to indulge in a little summer fling is hard to resist. And why should you? What is it about having a fling that’s so irresistible? It’s because, unlike like modern dating, the rules are pretty clear. You basically enter into a social contract where you both agree that you’ll have fun in... CONTINUE READING 2


Is Social Media Ruining Your Relationship

Everything great about the internet is terrible for relationships. Why? Relationships involve real people who need your attention in real time. Are you guilty of letting social media occasionally stand in for a real relationship? Here are the main social media outlets that are doing destructive things to our personal lives. 1. Texting How it's messing things up: Text messages are the... CONTINUE READING 3

He Totally Doesn't Love These Moves

Ladies. There are so many things guys do wrong in bed. But how often do we check ourselves? Here's a list of general (mis)understandings we have about what guys want, according to a few dudes who were eager to share with us. 1. Perfume and Deodorant Men are much more "animal" than women when it comes to hygiene. While we take extra... CONTINUE READING 8

How to Make Him Happy

Jenn Flaa, author of The Happiness Handbook, knows a thing or two about joy. She went from being a chubby, miserable divorcee who owned a high tech company that was barely hanging on, to a successful CEO and lead singer in a rock band. When it comes to happiness, she says, making your man happy, your boss happy, and... CONTINUE READING 2

Rejuvenate Your Sex Life in a Long Term Relationship

Long-term relationships can get tricky. After the hassle of a busy schedule, finding time to be intimate without being exhausted can be difficult. Some avoid sex altogether if he or she doesn't want to insult the other by waiting for the act to be "over with." Others don't want to be embarrassed by trying something new and failing horrendously. The... CONTINUE READING 4

Should you break or break up?

Like Carrie and Aidan, many couples struggle with the question of taking a break or breaking up. While some consider a break to be an actual break up, others believe a break leaves a couple with some healthy time apart to reconsider their relationship. Here’s a few ways to help determine what direction you’re leaning towards.  -Meryl Lumba 1. Fights Sookie and... CONTINUE READING 7

I Cheated - Now What?

Cheating is quite common, especially for those who have been married a long time. Though most people want to be in long-term, monogamous relationships, human nature calls: we simply can't help who we are drawn to. Note that that spark is not about honor and vows. It's about attraction, which is a natural feeling. In fact, some argue that monogamous... CONTINUE READING 13

Getting Over Him

Whether it was a long term relationship or just a fling, it can be incredibly difficult to shake away thoughts of your former beau. The void of his presence and messages start to become overwhelming, and every passing second seems to be an awful "association game" you play with yourself. But, like with any loss, breakups are hard to overcome.... CONTINUE READING 6


Many women look back on their 20s and remember it as a time of confusion, broken hearts, amazing revelations, and independence. Whether you're in the midst of your 20s or past them, here's a list of the main points every quarter-century girl ought to know, and for women thirty and beyond, it's something to reflect on. What else would you... CONTINUE READING 13


While words work to clarify how he is feeling... body language actually can reveal more than his words can convey! We have outlined some of the basic body language cues to help you decipher what you guy is really trying to tell you. - Grace Texter Direct Eye Contact When Listening When you are chatting away to... CONTINUE READING 11

How To Casual Relationships

In this day and age, there are many varieties of relationships and by no means are they cut-and-dry. It is important to know the ins and outs of how to deal with these various relationships once you have found yourself engaged in one. For example, the "casual relationship" or "friends with benefits." This involves someone you consider a friend... CONTINUE READING 13