You’ve seen our men demystify your biggest dude debacles, but we know that your questions about guys and relationships are never-ending. That’s why we’ve created a section for you to specifically ask our men questions, any time you’d like.
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Mr. Loves Boys TooI am 29 years old (for the 11th time this year) and I have a super-exciting career as a technology consultant. I’m an avid runner in all kinds of weather and I’m usually training for a marathon, half marathon, or some other crazy event (I ran the New York Marathon!). Running and living with my boyfriend and our two cats kind of keeps me “under control.” Of course, at “29,” “out of control” is a little different than it used to be, and we spend a lot more time hanging out at laid-back local wine bars rather than at The Ritz or Splash. |
Mr. Loverboy RockerI’m a 23-year-old college grad who loves to travel, play music, meet new people, dance, explore and more. I now build dream homes for a living and play in an up-and-coming, pop-rock band from Connecticut (the Second Street Saints!). I’ve been dating a lovely Argentinian girl the last three months after having been in a long-distance relationship with an English girl for three years. |
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Mr. Young and In LoveI’m a 23-year-old designer from the other side of the world (literally—I’m Australian). Despite having a healthy love of video games and Star Wars, I somehow managed to find the perfect girl who is uncomplicated, cute, easy going, and wants to know who Ted Mosby’s wife is just as much as me. We’re the super-cute couple that everyone says ‘awwww’ about, and now I’m here to dish out some advice from a Gen-Y’er about how to have the relationship you thought only Seth and Summer from the OC could have. |
Mr. Non CommittalAs a 39-year-old born and raised New Yorker I feel like my permanent player status is justified. It’s a city of over eight million people and meeting new women is just as exciting as discovering bars around this big city, which is what I do for a living. So, I’m here to share the opinions of an eternally single bachelor. I’m brutally honest and I won’t sugarcoat anything—brace yourselves. |
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Post a CommentI guess I can’t see the value any of these men can contribute anyone. one isn’t even interested in women. The others are too young and need to grow up. They all seem so immature. A committed bachelor giving advise to brides on weddings? How ludicrous is that?
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What happened to Mr Sensitive?
Xena,
Mr. Sensitive left and has been replaced with Mr. Young and In Love.
I don’t think that I will ever get married if my man decides that he wants to cheat and we’ve already discussed future together.
Why do guys date crazy women? Not to be a traitor to my sex or anything, but I just don’t get it. I was always told that being hyper clingy, reading my boyfriend’s emails and berating him for not lavishing me with constant attention was a bad thing, and yet several of my guy friends are in long-term relationships with women who do just that. Worst of all, they spend all their time complaining about how horrible their girlfriends are but they never do anything about it. WHY!
Why does it appear to be overwhelmingly difficult for husband/partner to just be respectful in the way they speak with the one they love? It shouldnt be such a difficult task to have a marriage with a friendship. Why the heck men feel as if they are the only one whom are entitle to have the opposite sex friendship VIA phone in person or internet? However, your lady can’t hAve the same trusted conditions?
I really want my boyfriend to lose a couple and get back in the gym with me. How can I get him to do this without being a nag?
I recently admited to myself that I have a crush on one of my friends from High School with whom I’ve kept in touch with all these years. Unfortunately, because I am of South Asian background and he isn’t, I am afraid to tell him and therefore hurt my family as well. My parents are extremely traditional and would not agree to my admiting my feelings. Help!!!!!
what happen to the 50/50 rule in a relationship, where did it go
And question for you ladies–What do you think about paying on the first date? Do you expect a guy to do it? Do you go for “the grab” and reach for your wallet…silently hoping he’ll pick up the tab?
What do you mean by 50/50? Are you talking about who picks up the tab?
We’ve been friends for 6 years, and now decided to begin an intimate relationship…but what I don’t get is why sometimes he’s aloof and distant while other times he’s affectionate and endearing? What’s up with the consistency? Is it fear of something?
What are the things that you look for that lets you know that you have perfect woman?
If a woman had to focus on one part of her body to emphasize. What part would be the most apeasing to men?
Why get married and have kids if you were going to cheat 16 years later and then realize that the marriage and the kids are the best thing that ever happened to you???
Looking forward to the male perspective on things, and I do agree, as women, we over analyze everything….LOL
You have to be careful dating now, men are on the DL, not sure what you getting.
I am in my late 30′s and on a dating website. Ninety percent of the men pursuing me are 10-15 years younger than me. Why can’t I attract men my age?
Why do men still feel the need to go these dating sites if there already in a relationship?
Why make promises when you know you don’t intend to follow thru? Chances are you will get lucky anyway
What is your favorite position in bed?
how do you get over a crush?
Why is it when you catch your boyfriend cheating well suspected cheating, but u know 4 a fact he is. Why is it that when you confront him he gets defensive and says he’s leaving. He gives you a chance 2 get over it and returns as if nothing happened every things all good. You tell him to go ahead and be single but he insists on coming back and playing the role of wanting a real relationship, but never own up to his infidelities help me out I don’t understand!