We reached our first heat wave here in the Big Apple last week and while most Manhattanites crowded the beaches or ran through sprinklers, some were left pondering the imminent question—how do we keep our sex lives as hot as it is outside? The weather isn’t going to get any cooler, so don’t let Mother Nature win in a race of “how hot can you go?” Whether you want to simply whisper naughty things in your lover’s ears or break out the handcuffs and experiment with new kinks or positions, we’ve got a list keep your sex life hot and heavy through summer and beyond!
There’s a reason why so many songs that have anything to do with talking dirty is an instant hit, like “Whisper in your Ear” by the Ying Yang Twins and the aptly titled “Dirty Talk” by Wynter Gordon to name a few. In terms of between-the-sheets-action, a lot of people shy away from explicit language. Why? Because they think it’s embarrassing. But we fully advise ladies to talk “dirty” for the simple act of encouragement. A man will perform better if he knows you’re into it and let’s face it, a lot of men need that validation through verbal communication. Some guys just don’t understand “body language” especially if you’re a mute in the bedroom. Even just giving him a “yes, right there” or “you feel so good” will pave the way to a noticeably better romp! Just remember—don’t be sleazy, be sexy and your partner will be even more turned on by your confidence!
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