We’re all for a good April Fool’s prank, but when it comes to your love life, too many foolish mistakes can really cost you. So this time of year, we’re offering up our dos and don’t’s to avoid making foolish faux pas in the game of love!
Date in the present:
Love takes time to incubate, to blossom and to grow. It doesn’t happen overnight and if you try to rush it, you will inevitably send who could have been Mr. Right running far, far away into less pressure-filled arms.
Keep expectations realistic:
Instead of going out shopping for a husband, shop for a good time. Keep things simple and in the present. Live in the moment to keep your sanity and potential future with your guy intact.
Increase your odds of meeting someone special:
Look to expand your dating playgrounds beyond double-fisting in a bar or searching online. The whole world can be seen as an opportunity to meet someone datable if you have your eyes and heart open. There’s no wrong place to meet Mr. Right.
Pay attention to what’s right in front of you:
What you see is most always what you get and while potential can be wrapped up in a pretty package, it’s slippery for your heart to make decisions in the present when bogged down with what you hope might happen in the future.
Go for the gold medal in love:
Don’t accept “good enough” – not the silver, not the bronze. Believe that you are worthy of the best possible love in your love and never quit until you arrive at it, even if that means holding out for a little longer than you expected. Waking up next to a gold medal guy every day will make it worth the wait and effort.
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-Tristan Coopersmith & Janis Gaudelli, Founders of The BreakUP Club
The BreakUP Club is a female-owned and operated organization dedicated to female empowerment and helping women feel, heal and seal the hurt of heartbreak. The organization is headquartered in Los Angeles, CA and offers local workshops, national online workshops, private one-on-one sessions and teleseminars. For more information, visit break-upclub.com.