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Steve Ward from VH1 Tough Love is giving us the scoop on relationships and men, and telling us if we should “date or ditch” our dudes.

Q. Why do men care about the number of guys women have slept with? AND do they care because they care for us or care to beat our numbers?

A. “Most men don’t care about the number of men you have slept with…in fact most men would like to think you haven’t slept with anybody. Any man who does care about your number is insecure with their manhood. It’s not about beating your number, it’s about beating out other guys.”

Q. What are the signs to let us know the guy we are with is “the one”?

A. “He makes time for you, he makes sacrifices for you and he lets other people know how much he cares about you.”

GIRL TALK TIME: What do you think of these Q&As? What question about guys really baffles you? Share your feedback for OMG Points, and stay tuned for more of Steve Ward’s advice coming up on Sheckys.com!