Does Size Matter?
I was riding the subway recently, and a creepy guy was staring at my cleavage. Then, I felt him do elevator eyes over my legs, my butt and back up to the boobs. Ew. How is it fair that guys can instantly judge our bodies with all of our, er, womanly parts, but we can see nothing of their important guy ones? Unless I’m getting X-Ray (XXX-Ray?!) vision soon or you’re really happy to see me (umm, ick?), I’m pretty sure I can’t tell the size of your package through those jeans, suit pants, board shorts….
Men can look at us and do a quick assessment. Usually go for girls with big boobs? The well-endowed lady over there is your cup of tea. More of a “butt” man? The bootylicious babe flaunting it will get a call. But how am I supposed to know or even attempt to judge a guy’s size just by eyeballing him? (P.S.: It’s way more discreet to glance at a chest or butt than I imagine it would be to get waist level and stare.) I would love to think that people ask each other out all the time because they are sl-oooowy scoping out one another’s souls, but let’s be serious for a sec—physical attraction, lust, sex and size are just as important as romance and being compatible.
Case in point: One of my friends was dating a guy who was nice, smart, had a great job and treated her well. She really liked him…until they slept together. Why did she break it off? “He had a small one,” she admitted. “I just couldn’t, the sex was bad!” Some might lament the superficiality of her choice, but I always prefer to remain just as happy with a man in bed as I am bonding with him over his quirky obsession with Peter Pan.
The great news for all the small guys out there is…I have met women who do think that good things come in small packages. And I’ve also heard of ladies who lament over it being too big (all those “proud” men, take note!). I know this isn’t one of those “one size fits all” situations, but still, you can’t pick ‘em before you sleep with them (unless you met your guy at a male strip club, and in that case I don’t think size is your biggest issue). So, I’ve stumbled upon a gal’s greatest gamble in life: THE SIZE. Short of making peepholes in men’s pant crotches a fad (um, awkward), I suppose we will have to live with this strange inequality that is still going on.
-Cait Rohan
GIRL TALK TIME: Do you think she’s being too superficial? Have you ever judged a guy on size? Does it matter to you or do you usually make the most of whatever, er, surprise package life hands you? Is it unfair that guys can see some of our goodies before we can glance at theirs? Do you wish you could judge beforehand? Have you ever dumped a guy because of his size? We won’t tell. Men can’t be members (where’s your head at…?) on this site.
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Post a Commentsize doesn’t matter. he might have a big one but not know how to use it. what’s that saying, its not the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean? lol
I would say to a point the size matters, but as long as he can please you in other ways then it’s all good:-)
Size most definitely does matter. I have had both too small and too big. Either you cant feel a think, or it just hurts. I lucked out with my hubby, he is perfect for me:)
No it does not.
Size does not matter
I would say it does matter, but it’s not always about the size….if he can please you, than thats what really matters!
Yes it does matter. And it also does not matter how big if he doesn’t know what to do with it.
Size does matter and if you think it doesnt you havent had sex with a small penis. LOL. All the love , attention, chemistry. money ,etc… wont matter cause At the end you will still be sexually frusrated. I speak from experience. Dated a Man who was romantic, funny, sexy, smart. But I was always disappointed in the bedroom. Eventually it takes it toll
yes, i also agree size does matter . you could but up with a lot of things but at the end of the day you want great sex. if you have great chemistry and his penus dosent please you sooner or later you will get sexual frustration.
I think it does because you want to at least be able to feel it.
there are certain things that women can deal with though if pretty much everything else is damn good
I AGREE SIZE DOES MATTER. AND DAMMIT IF YOU CAN’T HUMP WELL AT LEAST DO SOMETHING ELSE TO COMPENSATE IT.
I feel like this article was written about me. Sexual chemisrty is very important for me. After meeting a fantastic guy, i played my cards right and waited to have sex..i was very disappointed..i only heard about these small sizes in medical articles but now i saw it first hand. It was skinny and the smallest one i have ever seen. I feel like if they get to see what we are working with we should be able to see theirs..it will save both people allot of time..lol
‘Gamble’ is the perfect word! It’s a crap shoot and I can say that I have lost that bet and been disappointed because it is important (just as much as other personality traits are). Too big can be almost as bad as too small, but as said before – you still need to know what to do with it!
I agree, size does matter..but its not about being the biggest like most guys think. I honestly think that if you go to sleep with a man and you aren’t compatible thats a sign that no matter how much else you have in common, the relationship is not meant to be. Being physically compatible is almost as important and being compatiable emotionally. Then again, if it’s simply a matter of him not knowing what to do or how to use it, then it’s up to use to teach him how
ummm YES! size does matter and anyone who says different is a lie!
ok we would all like to say size doesn’t matter but the truth is it does. it doesn’t have no be king kong but it must be present.
hahahaha…yes agreed must be present
As the Beatles put it, “All you need is love.” But honestly, and personally, size and often shape matter. When you put these two factors together its all about personal preferance. Its important to be in a healthy and happy relationship with a great sex life too. With that being said, SAFE trial and error ladies. : )
There’s nothing worse than a guy with a small or really skinny penis! lol
so sad, and so true!
If it’s too big it hurts!