Shecky’s

I had met this guy on an internet website and we met up and went on a couple of dates and thing were really great. He took me to his house and I met his roommate and everything, we spent a lot of time together and he had just got stationed here from South Korea( army). So we started to get involved intimately and I asked him if he wanted to go for valentines day when his reply was NO I DONT DO VALENTINES so I said okay. A few girlfriends and myself were invited over to watch the superbowl there and everytime someone (female) would come over he would walk to the door to let them in and then they would all step outside for a few. So one morning I was sitting in his truck and I read a keychain that he had in the shape of a heart and it said ‘ You’ll always take my heart with you where ever you go Q+S’ so I thought okay thats strange so another time when i stayed the night he had this manilla envelope that was mailed to him from this woman and I read the name on the envelope and it started with an S and it came from overseas so I put two and two together again especially when he pulled the information out of the envelope and it was important bank documents. so later that day i went through his friends list and I found the woman and looked on her page nothing was there to say that they were in a relationship with the wach other except for the fact that her current duty station was his previous duty station. so there was a picture of her in her uniform (she’s in the army too) and the unit patch on her arm I noticed was the same unit patch that he had on his dresser in his bedroom right infront of the pictures of his son (who is not hers) so that was another thing that gave me a feeling that something isnt right. Not only that but whenever he would answer the phone and talk he would get up and walk out of the room that we would be sitting in (another sign I should have listened to) One day I overheard him on the phone and he was saying how she comes back in august or july (which is what I saw she said on her facebook page that she gets back in august) so I knew automatically who he was talking about and he also said that he was more than ready to get married because he was tired on hanging out with these scallyway ass women out here. so the same day when we got in the truck i struck up random conversation (ok not so I random I just came out and asked the question) Is that key chain from your girlfriend? and his answer was YES and he had nothing else to say he didnt even blink an eye or look at me… so as I am sitting in the passenger seat baffled as ever my mind is racing at a hundred miles per minute and thats when i was like and you were’nt going to tell me and he was like no and i was like dont you think that it would have been fair if you would have told me and he was like no and yes and then he was like Nadine dont go there and I was like dont go where all I am saying is that I thinki should have at least known and he was like no dont do it I dont even know what on earth he could have been thinking all i know is that that was the most awkward truck ride i ever had and i do not plan on speaking to him again being the other woman is no fun and it is not anything that i would ever intentionally do. SMH hopes he burns in hell for that one

Yes, I was the other woman. Dated man for over 2 years before receiving call from his wife informing me he was married. We had an intense, committed, open (all so I thought) relationship. Everyone at his work knew about me. We were in public frequently. We traveled together. She admitted to having known for more than half the time. They separated immediately after she called me. It was absolutely devastating. Still is. I was madly in love with him.

I’ve been seeing this guy for a couple of months we would talk pretty much every single day texting calling. Because im at university and he lived in my home town we didnt really see each other but I would go down to see him a couple of times and he came down to see me too…we didnt have sex I wouldnt rush into things like that didnt really talk about sex except for this ocassional flirty text here and there about it. He made me start to trust him he used to say stuff like im one of the good guys im gonna prove that to you cause actions speak louder than words.Then the other day I get a phone call from his girlfriend but luckly she realised that I didnt know. I feel so angry so humiliated he lied to me manipulated me and used me.

Been in both. was the other woman n have been cheated on. never ends good for anyone.

I was friends with this guy for about three years. and about 4-5 months ago I went to say goodbye to him because he had joined the marine corps and we really hit it off. Like we went crazy for each other, he would tell me all the time he got butterflies and he couldn’t wait to see me and he was gonna miss me so much when he left. So we started dating and when he left I missed him so much, he wrote me a few times and I wrote him every sunday because he asked me too. It hurt my heart I missed him so much.
about two months into his training I got a facebook message from this girl, and the girl was his ex girlfriend. She asked me if I knew him, and I was so extremely confused and was like uh yeah? how come. She said to me ” I mean no disrespect I was just wondering what goes on with you two. Because you are on the list of people to send his recruiting address too. and I thought that was weird because he told me he had stopped talking to you.”
and I was like what the hell?! who is this girl telling me what my boyfriend said?! I thought she was insane at first. and we talked for quite some time. and it turns out. she’s his fiance. I promised her I would never talk to him again. and She said she’s waiting for him to come home to talk to him. I didn’t agree. I have never felt so betrayed. So heart broken. I fell so hard for this boy and he fell so hard for me, or so I thought. I haven’t gotten a letter in almost a month, and the sad thing is i’m still waiting for them. I check the mail everyday with hope, but I always get let down. He’ll be home in about 20 days, and I doubt he’ll even call.

Cheating today is not hard. We live in a digital world and it makes it more tempting for a man or woman to cheat! If you are on face book chatting or poking someone is that cheating? Sometimes you can put yourself in an electronic emotional relationship just from emailing, tweeting and texting. I think we need to redefine the word CHEATING. I refuse to stress over how many FB friends my man has or who he follows on twitter. I can only speak from experience I am the other woman, HIS MOM COMES FIRST! That is a topic for another forum!

Seeing that he never got in touch with her I would think that they were still seeing each other.

LMAO!!!! Awkward…….. I might have helped her kick his a**

What a crazy story!

Arnold’s wife knew….she’s a Kennedy! It was all a political show. She probably had her own fun!

Been both!

PPl cheat when they are looking for happiness… Only brings pain….

wow crazy and shocking story

I have never been the other women, but the one who was cheated on. These guys will never learn, will they.

It’s one thing to be the unknowing “other woman” to an attached man, but it’s a whole other thing to be a knowing and willing jumpoff. Most of the time, you don’t know the woman and she doesn’t doesn’t even know you exsist. She doesn’t owe you anything since she’s a victim too, so the focus of your anger and blame should always be on the cheating man. BUT if you’re the” other woman” and you know the cheated woman, or even know “of her” and you still participate in the affair, then you are just as gulity and you deserve whatever drama is coming your way. Jumpoffs never wanna take any responsiblity for thier actions and they always wanna turn it on the cheated woman. But no matter what the man says or how you may feel about him, it always comes down to self respect and morals. I’m a firm believer that KARMA is real. What goes around comes around and when it’s all said and done, KARMA always collects it’s debts. Being the other woman, willing or not, always sucks!

I have never been the other woman…….I have been a victim and I did cheat on him after learning that. he cheated on me and it just seemed that our relationship was a lie…… I then left his sorry a**……..He tried and tried to get back with me but I was better than that….I moved on to start a better chapter of my life without him…..Men cheating will never stop.

This been going on before the test of times, it’s just that men was the solo provider and women took care of the kids and house, even if they know there man was cheating it was okay cause they take care of them but now Women are independent and use freedom of speech ,we can found out by going on t.v. shows, cheater show, lie detection, GPS on there phones, facebook, myspace, cell phone records, texts, emails, private detectors, all these things we can find out from but your heart and mind tell you before you do any of these……:(