Suzy is one of my all-time favorite personal matchmaking clients, currently topping the success charts here at Cupid’s Coach. At the some-would-say-challenging age of 58, Suzanne is receiving consistently favorable post-date evaluations and during the past year with us, she has had three men interested in pairing off with her. Count them, three…! That’s what I call an admirable situation.
I called Suzanne this morning to pry out her secret for having such a positive dating experience, and she said she’d reveal her strategy, but only if I promised to share it with you, so here’s the thing….
Suzanne’s Success Strategy (which she says works 100% of the time): She claims it’s her mission to Make His Day. When she’s leaving a voice mail message, replying to an email or in person on the date, she looks for ways to brighten his world and enrich his life. She said, “In other words, ask not what he can do for me or be for me, but rather…what can I be for him? What can I do for him that just might Make His Day?
“Dating” says Suzanne, “is a great opportunity to practice flexibility,” as she knows it’s a skill that will serve her well once in relationship. The man she said yes to for exploring an exclusive relationship is Peter, and I just dug up his early post date evaluations. After their third date he raved to me about how she’s always happy to drive to his neighborhood or to meet him half-way, rather than always expecting him to schlep to her.
Peter also commented about how refreshing it is to be with a woman who is game for anything—the upscale restaurant they had in mind for their date was packed, and they ended up at the deli over soup and an ice cream sundae. He was worried that she’d be disappointed, but she was happy, which made him happy. In fact, her ability to roll with the punches literally…made his day. (His exact words…wild, huh?)
Peter and Suzanne have been seeing each other exclusively for five months now, and last month I received the most lovely thank you card from him in the mail.
Suzanne is doing lots right, and I’m glad to have this chance to share her success strategies with all of you. Love on, folks!
-Julie Ferman of Cupid’s Coach
Julie Ferman is Cupid’s Coach. She’s a personal matchmaker and dating coach, responsible for over 1,100 marriages.
Julie founded her personal matchmaking and dating coaching service, Cupid’s Coach to dignify and simplify the love search process for selective, relationship-minded professionals. The company is currently California’s largest, fastest growing personal introduction service and is rapidly expanding, with 50 locations throughout the U.S.
Julie met her husband of 20 years through a proactive love search of her own, and has spent every day since helping the rest of us fall in love and stay in love. Julie Ferman knows the love business and is eager to share her secrets with us.
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PLUS, Did you catch Julie on Dr. Phil? Julie Ferman, Cupid’s Coach, appeared on Dr. Phil as she took on the love lives of two of the Dr. Phil Housewives—Gloria and Michelle.
Dr. Phil brought in Cupid’s Coach to be the dating coach and personal matchmaker for these two ladies. Let us know if you spotted Julie!
GIRL TALK TIME: Whether you’re single or attached, how do you make a guy’s day? Let us know your secrets for snagging them and making them stay!