Our New Guy Panel Will Solve All: What Would YOU Ask a Guy?
Happy September! To celebrate all the things we love about our new No Boys Allowed section, we’re starting up an Ask a Guy section this month. Yep, here’s your chance to ask a panel of men all of your burning questions: sex advice, how to really get him to listen, the best way to meet a significant other, if he’s a keeper…or a creeper, what he thinks of your lingerie….
How to submit? Just put your question in the comments below. If we end up using it, we’ll attribute your username. The panel will be recurring, so you’ll have tons of chances to ask questions and have your problems answered by real dudes.












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Post a Commentok so my problem, i dated a guy for a couple of months over a year ago. then a couple months after that we became best friends again. then i dated a guy for about a year and convinced myself that i didnt like my ex/best friend, but my new bf recently dumped me. i guess then i let my guard down and my feelings for my ex/bf came back like big time but a guy whos liked me all of middle school asked me out already and i said yes but now the ex/bestfriend and i are gonna hang out and i dont know what to do cuz some things say he likes me, other things say he doesnt. advice?
So my question is, how does a guy who is mid 30′s not know til 2 months in that he’s “not ready” for a relationship? We met through a mutual friend and he is the one who got my number after our second time hanging out and was the one who originally pursued the relationship. Found out a bit later we had other mutual friends that he had told we were dating when I was still at the point that I didnt’ know if we were or not. Then after about 2 months of dating, he starts getting distant so I ask him if this is something he still wants to pursue or not and he tells me that this is what he thought he wanted but realizes now that he doesn’t and isn’t ready for a relationship. Then I wonder too, if I wouldn’t have asked, how long would it have taken before he manned up and said something or would he have just kept pushing me away?
Here is my question, I have been married now for 10 years and for the past 2 years my husband has been getting his kicks from internet porn — that lead to sexting strange women. He claims he loves me but if he does love me then why?
Hey! So sorry to hear this, I would definitely have a talk with your hubby and tell him straight up how his behavior makes you feel. If he doesn’t change his ways, it may be time to seek a marriage counselor or rethink your relationship.
i dont understand this is crazy
why should girls go our of their way to buy and wear sexy lingerie when guys never really notice any differences?
Men have the worst timing. Got a big presentation tomorrow and my guy has to lay some heavy news on me. Thank goodness I’ve got a good support system.
I see major inconsistency in the things guys openly “notice” (as in mention, comment on or willingly confess to notice) and the things they say, “Oh, I didn’t notice that” about. eg. other women, your flaws, how much so-in-so ate at dinner. Is this simply the witness protection program or are they really THAT inconsistent?
Why do guys go after those girls in clubs that wear a ton of make-up when these girls clearly won’t look like that in the morning?
What would be your favorite sports uniform on your girl?
Do most guys find their girlsfriends girls night out a threat?
good idea.
Can men and women truly be friends without one person wanting more than friendship?
i wish
Which is sexier? Black or Red?
you so ok school
What are your biggest turnoffs in a woman?
So new sexy clothes, or meet you at the door with cold beer?
What do you find attractive in a woman?
Are you really listening to me or are you just nodding your head to shut me up?
Why do you insist at looking at other women when you are with your own woman?
this goes for boyfriends, husbands, someone you just started dating, WHY IF A GIRL TEXTS YOU DOES IT TAKE YOU HOURS TO TEXT BACK? we all have busy lives, at the gym, grocery shopping etc etc but come on, a text takes one minute, not hours to write. my guy friends said it just doesnt occur to them to text “hey im busy right now but ill ttyl.” which would be FYI a great msg to write us. just write SOMETHING.